MelissaInPhilly Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 I have a friend named Carlos who is unemployed and he was feeling down and I offered to take him out for a drink. Carlos is gay --what some may call a "flamer" -- so he asked me if I minded going to a gay bar. I said no, I didn't mind. So we went to this bar, which was very nice, and the people were friendly. There were alot of very nice looking, masculine looking men there -- people who don't fit the stereotype of the effeminiate gay man. I had a nice time. Then Carlos sees an old flame of his and they start kissing -- I mean, not a peck on the cheek stuff, but a real kissy-kiss, tongues and all. I was shocked. I know what you're thinking -- I'm in a gay bar, so what did I expect? But I really didn't feel comfortable seeing two men kiss like this. I just stood there with a silly smile on my face. Then on the way home Carlos is talking about what he likes in a man, (big behinds, etc.) We're driving along I-95 and he's blowing kisses to truck drivers and once again I'm saying to myself "ewwwww!" Carlos is a nice guy and I've known him for years, but if we do go out again, I think I'll skip the gay bars. I try to judge people on their character, not their race, sexual orientation etc. but -- I guess I'm not as liberal as I thought P.S.: While we were at this bar this lesbian winked and smiled at me. Uh, no.
inkman Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Well, at least he didn't butt slam his ex in front of you.
Hawk Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 EWWWWWW!!! http://www.kissforthecamera.com/?id=2779
VABills Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Guess you won't be voting for the open marriage then?
/dev/null Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 When I moved to Norfolk after college I was looking for bars and clubs to hang out at so i asked one of my coworkers. he gave me the name of a bar and said i shouldn't have any problem finding someone to hookup with. that weekend i checked the place out. noticed an awful lot of guys but guessed that if the place was as easy to find a hookup as my coworker said, the place would be popular. sat up at the bar, ordered a beer, and looked around. and then it occured to me where i was as soon as i finished my beer i was out the door. on monday we all had a good laugh at my expense
Hawk Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 When I moved to Norfolk after college I was looking for bars and clubs to hang out at so i asked one of my coworkers. he gave me the name of a bar and said i shouldn't have any problem finding someone to hookup with. that weekend i checked the place out. noticed an awful lot of guys but guessed that if the place was as easy to find a hookup as my coworker said, the place would be popular. sat up at the bar, ordered a beer, and looked around. and then it occured to me where i was as soon as i finished my beer i was out the door. on monday we all had a good laugh at my expense 791059[/snapback] So you didnt hook up???
inkman Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 So you didnt hook up??? 791077[/snapback] I guess we'll never know.
UConn James Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 I guess we'll never know. 791081[/snapback] Devnull is keeping it on the down-low.
Marv's Neighbor Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 When I moved to Norfolk after college I was looking for bars and clubs to hang out at so i asked one of my coworkers. he gave me the name of a bar and said i shouldn't have any problem finding someone to hookup with. that weekend i checked the place out. noticed an awful lot of guys but guessed that if the place was as easy to find a hookup as my coworker said, the place would be popular. sat up at the bar, ordered a beer, and looked around. and then it occured to me where i was as soon as i finished my beer i was out the door. on monday we all had a good laugh at my expense 791059[/snapback] Don't worry, they're probably all squares in "the quilt" by now!
RuntheDamnBall Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 Don't worry, they're probably all squares in "the quilt" by now! 792201[/snapback] that is a truly horrible thing to say. but if it makes you feel cool, whatever.
ajzepp Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I have a friend named Carlos who is unemployed and he was feeling down and I offered to take him out for a drink. Carlos is gay --what some may call a "flamer" -- so he asked me if I minded going to a gay bar. I said no, I didn't mind. So we went to this bar, which was very nice, and the people were friendly. There were alot of very nice looking, masculine looking men there -- people who don't fit the stereotype of the effeminiate gay man. I had a nice time. Then Carlos sees an old flame of his and they start kissing -- I mean, not a peck on the cheek stuff, but a real kissy-kiss, tongues and all. I was shocked. I know what you're thinking -- I'm in a gay bar, so what did I expect? But I really didn't feel comfortable seeing two men kiss like this. I just stood there with a silly smile on my face. Then on the way home Carlos is talking about what he likes in a man, (big behinds, etc.) We're driving along I-95 and he's blowing kisses to truck drivers and once again I'm saying to myself "ewwwww!" Carlos is a nice guy and I've known him for years, but if we do go out again, I think I'll skip the gay bars. I try to judge people on their character, not their race, sexual orientation etc. but -- I guess I'm not as liberal as I thought P.S.: While we were at this bar this lesbian winked and smiled at me. Uh, no. 790992[/snapback] so Puhonix finally came out of the closet, eh?
/dev/null Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 So you didnt hook up??? 791077[/snapback] I guess we'll never know. 791081[/snapback] Devnull is keeping it on the down-low. 791082[/snapback]
Helmet_hair Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I only wish hot women had the minds of sexed up gay males. That would be great.
5 Wide Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I only wish hot women had the minds of sexed up gay males. That would be great. 792727[/snapback] You must not be meeting the right hot women then
shrader Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 When I moved to Norfolk after college I was looking for bars and clubs to hang out at so i asked one of my coworkers. he gave me the name of a bar and said i shouldn't have any problem finding someone to hookup with. that weekend i checked the place out. noticed an awful lot of guys but guessed that if the place was as easy to find a hookup as my coworker said, the place would be popular. sat up at the bar, ordered a beer, and looked around. and then it occured to me where i was as soon as i finished my beer i was out the door. on monday we all had a good laugh at my expense 791059[/snapback] I'm trying to decide whether or not it was a good thing that you finished that beer.
Ramius Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I'm trying to decide whether or not it was a good thing that you finished that beer. 792751[/snapback] to wash the taste out of his mouth?
/dev/null Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 I'm trying to decide whether or not it was a good thing that you finished that beer. 792751[/snapback] its a good thing. had i not finished my beer that would have been wasting beer wasting beer = RJ
erynthered Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 While we were at this bar this lesbian winked and smiled at me. 790992[/snapback] Maybe you should have tried it. You might have liked it. you never know... I'm just sayin!!
ieatcrayonz Posted October 2, 2006 Posted October 2, 2006 You must not be meeting the right hot women then 792732[/snapback] Not if they see him first
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