#89 Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 In the town that he was killed Take an ad in the paper for a person to research it or the local historian Library workers can do the newspaper searches. If you offer a reward for information it will get the ball rolling and you would be surprised the hours a regular person will but in for $50 to $100. Some of our retired people love the challenge.
Reuben Gant Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 I watched the Waterboy. Bobby Bucher's mom told him a story like this. Not to be flippant but.... Are you sure she has told you the truth? She may have been protecting you from something she thought was worse at the time and after years it becomes hard to come clean.
The_Real Posted August 23, 2005 Author Posted August 23, 2005 I watched the Waterboy. Bobby Bucher's mom told him a story like this. Not to be flippant but.... Are you sure she has told you the truth? She may have been protecting you from something she thought was worse at the time and after years it becomes hard to come clean. 415149[/snapback] That is exactly what I'm afraid of Rueben. Yet, I'm going to be 27 and I think I can handle it. I want to know the truth and that's why I've intensified my search. t-r
Tux of Borg Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Good ole Fort Bragg... I miss the good times i had there. I don't know if this will help, but here is a link to the UNC law library. http://library.law.unc.edu/ The local newspaper in Fayetteville is called the Fayetteville Observer If your dad was in the military, you might want to post a message up on paratrooper.net A lot of old timers hang out there and might be able to help you out. You also might want to contact the 82nd association.
The Poojer Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 have NJSue do a Google search!!!! Seriously, good luck but like LA said, worry about today! So here is the deal. My father's name is Jose Morejon. He came over to the United States from Cuba in the early 60's. He moved to NYC and then went into the army right after highschool. To make a long story short, he was murdered while on active duty in 1980 in North Carolina or so I have been lead to believe. I can not find any information what so ever on him and have not been able to in my 27 years of life. I've contacted Fort Bragg, where he was killed, and they won't give me the time of day even though I have explained the situation to them. I've called the District Attorney's office in Fayetville, NC but with out the name of the person who did the crime they have not been able to help me. -Ancestry.com: Nothing Now I'm getting personal here so please, don't be a d!ck, this is all totally true. The story my mom has told me my whole life is that he was somehow involved with drugs. She also told me he was having an affair and that the women he was having the affair with was the one that killed him. No one can tell me her name. No one will tell me the whole story. I'll be 27 this sunday. I was 2 when he was murdered. I just want to know the whole story and to read the court case. Really just about anything. I couldn't be more sincere so please if you think this is me being b.s, don't be insensitive. I've tried everything. I just have no other alternatives anymore. I'd appreciate anything. anything. t-r 414942[/snapback]
Beerball Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 have Lori do a Google search!!!! Seriously, good luck but like LA said, worry about today! 415174[/snapback] Gotta understand the past...
zonabb Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Like Clem said in Joe Dirt, "The past is passed, the future is now."!!! Seriously, my spemr donor walked out on my mom and I when I was one. And I never looked back. But whatever makes you able to move forward. If you find out that your mother is bending the truth to protect you from this guy (which my mom never did, thankfully) then it's more than likely for good reason. And if that's the case, remember that Furious was "deep" in Boyz N Da Hood when he said "Any fool with a dikc can make a baby but a real man takes care of his kids." Good luck with whatever the case may be.
IDBillzFan Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Gotta understand the past... 415176[/snapback] Gotta know when to let go of it, too. Every moment you spend analyzing the past is a moment you now have missed in the present. It's the difference between being a proactive person and a reactive person. And in case you can't tell the difference, think about the boss you used to have who ran around fixing problems versus the boss you had who ran around creating opportunity. Are you living most of your life on your own terms or are you sacrificing your own life to figure out how someone else lived theirs? Believe me, if the old man was worth his salt as a person, his son wouldn't be trying to figure out what the hell happened to him. Life isn't an episode of CSI.
DeeRay Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 what would be the problem of going through the county records of the county he was murdered and look at all death certificates issued/filed in that entire month... or whatever.
mead107 Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 I want to know the truth t-r 415158[/snapback] YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH------------------ just kidding hope you find your dad alive living with 10 twenty year olds . --- do you know he is dead for sure?
The_Real Posted August 25, 2005 Author Posted August 25, 2005 I did get a response from the newspaper but I think it was auto generated. I also wrote to VA as suggested and again tried to contact the District Attorney's office. The problem is I don't know the person's name that committed the act against him. The case has been searched twice and I am yet to find anything. I've printed/sent the form for the VA but they expect a time table of 4-6 weeks before I'll hear anything. Is there a database of all criminal cases in the united states? Even if it's not online I'd take the time to write for it. Anything? t-r
The_Real Posted August 25, 2005 Author Posted August 25, 2005 He is buried in Miami Florida and I have visited him numerous times. I know that he died in October of 1980 and was in the military. He grew up in NYC on the upper West side. The death certificate said that it was a homicide and that he was shot. That is seriously all I know about my father for sure.
VABills Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 He is buried in Miami Florida and I have visited him numerous times. I know that he died in October of 1980 and was in the military. He grew up in NYC on the upper West side. The death certificate said that it was a homicide and that he was shot. That is seriously all I know about my father for sure. 417279[/snapback] If this is for real you can contact the military records as a surviving family member and request any military/medical records. It is fairly quick and can for the most part be requested online. They will need a copy of your signature and probably birth certificate.
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