DrW Posted yesterday at 01:16 AM Share Posted yesterday at 01:16 AM When I came to the US in 1990, one of my desires was to drive a full-size station wagon, a type of car which we did not have in Germany. I got a used Oldsmobile Custom Cruiser, and I loved it. We took it from Rochester on trips to the West Coast, to Florida and Louisiana, and to Newfoundland, until it died with 237,000 miles. It was replaced by another full-size wagon, a Pontiac Safari, which did nearly as well. We did not take the Pontiac with us when we moved to West Texas 20+years ago, only my wife's Pontiac Bonneville. Thus, I had to look for a car here, and with two young kids at that time I was thinking SUV. Well, I ended up with my first minivan, a Ford Windstar. I had never imagined me driving such a vehicle, but it was just too darn practical. It was followed by another Windstar, and now for about seven years I have been driving a 2010 Honda Odyssey. It is truly low-maintenance, and at the moment I cannot imagine anything more useful. When my son went to high school, his first car was a hand-me-down Windstar. At first there was some fear of embarrassment, as most kids here drive trucks. However, there was never a problem. On several occasions his classmates decorated the "swagger wagon". Thus, when he had to replace it as student at UT, the first car of his own choice (with some parental financial help) was ... a Honda Odyssey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExiledInIllinois Posted yesterday at 02:38 AM Share Posted yesterday at 02:38 AM 1 hour ago, Augie said: I’m bragging that the kid learned a lesson. He’s coming to understand money. He’s also a AMAZING dad to two kids with the oldest just having her 2nd BDay. Sue me. No doubt... Has nothing to do with a vehicle. What lesson? That he had $40k in 2014 and still hung on to hung on to vehicle? Amazing story bro! More people should learn that lesson! Not knocking... It's all where people choose to put their resources... If someone is coming up with BMWs for their 16 year old... It's probably chump change to them. God.. I'd hate to see the horrible living conditions. 😆 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Augie Posted yesterday at 02:45 AM Share Posted yesterday at 02:45 AM 1 minute ago, ExiledInIllinois said: No doubt... Has nothing to do with a vehicle. What lesson? That he had $40k in 2014 and still hung on to hung on to vehicle? Amazing story bro! More people should learn that lesson! Not knocking... It's all where people choose to put their resources... If someone is coming up with BMWs for their 16 year old... It's probably chump change to them. God.. I'd hate to see the horrible living conditions. 😆 I’m sorry, but it appears you lean a certain (complaining) way and just don’t get where I’m coming from. I think it is terrible that people do that to/for their kids. There is absolutely nothing wrong with trying to do well in life, and that comes in many different forms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExiledInIllinois Posted yesterday at 03:09 AM Share Posted yesterday at 03:09 AM 22 minutes ago, Augie said: I’m sorry, but it appears you lean a certain (complaining) way and just don’t get where I’m coming from. I think it is terrible that people do that to/for their kids. There is absolutely nothing wrong with trying to do well in life, and that comes in many different forms. Nobody is complaining. It's 2024. Rich folk buying their kid a car is chump change. No lessons are being taught. People drive. It doesn't have to be stratified. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Augie Posted yesterday at 03:14 AM Share Posted yesterday at 03:14 AM 2 minutes ago, ExiledInIllinois said: Nobody is complaining. It's 2024. Rich folk buying their kid a car is chump change. No lessons are being taught. People drive. It doesn't have to be stratified. You seem to make it that way. You complain about “rich folk” a lot. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExiledInIllinois Posted yesterday at 03:27 AM Share Posted yesterday at 03:27 AM 10 minutes ago, Augie said: You seem to make it that way. You complain about “rich folk” a lot. Seems that you are complaining about them. Again, them not buying their kids a car isn't some teaching lesson. LoL... Where did you ever get that notion. Like buying their kids a pair of shoes. I got no problem with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Jack Posted yesterday at 04:32 AM Share Posted yesterday at 04:32 AM 3 hours ago, DrW said: When I came to the US in 1990, one of my desires was to drive a full-size station wagon, a type of car which we did not have in Germany. I got a used Oldsmobile Custom Cruiser, and I loved it. We took it from Rochester on trips to the West Coast, to Florida and Louisiana, and to Newfoundland, until it died with 237,000 miles. It was replaced by another full-size wagon, a Pontiac Safari, which did nearly as well. We did not take the Pontiac with us when we moved to West Texas 20+years ago, only my wife's Pontiac Bonneville. Thus, I had to look for a car here, and with two young kids at that time I was thinking SUV. Well, I ended up with my first minivan, a Ford Windstar. I had never imagined me driving such a vehicle, but it was just too darn practical. It was followed by another Windstar, and now for about seven years I have been driving a 2010 Honda Odyssey. It is truly low-maintenance, and at the moment I cannot imagine anything more useful. When my son went to high school, his first car was a hand-me-down Windstar. At first there was some fear of embarrassment, as most kids here drive trucks. However, there was never a problem. On several occasions his classmates decorated the "swagger wagon". Thus, when he had to replace it as student at UT, the first car of his own choice (with some parental financial help) was ... a Honda Odyssey. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExiledInIllinois Posted yesterday at 04:33 AM Share Posted yesterday at 04:33 AM (edited) For the complainers like @Augie... 😉 We're almost evenly divided on a very controversial issue: https://finmasters.com/should-parents-buy-their-child-a-car/ If they can afford it... Sure why not buy your kid a car! More power to them. Give your kid a head start, leg up! Sets them up for long term success. "Pros of Buying Your Child a Car Your child will be able to come up with a million reasons why you should get them a car, probably starting with the fact that their friend got one. But in reality, there are two main reasons to buy them a car instead of letting them do it themselves. First, it’s a chance for you to give your child a financial head start and set them up for long-term success. When you cover the cost of the vehicle, they’ll typically be able to: Avoid taking on an expensive auto loan. Hold onto any cash savings they’ve set aside. Get a car sooner than they could on their own. Second, buying a car for your child means you have direct control over what they drive. You can choose a vehicle that’s safe, reliable, and economical. Left to their own devices, a teenager might buy something they think looks cool and exclude more important considerations." Lots of cool & safe luxury rides! 😆 Edited yesterday at 04:36 AM by ExiledInIllinois Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
That's No Moon Posted yesterday at 05:34 AM Share Posted yesterday at 05:34 AM 2013 Mazda CX-9 185,000 miles 2021 Mazda CX-5 46,000 miles 2015 Honda Accord 57,000 miles My Mazdas have been great and drive great. The Honda was a pain in the ass when I first got it. It was back to the dealership 4 or 5 times in less than a year before they finally fixed it properly and I had a Honda customer service reps number and was on a first name basis. It's the 2nd Honda I've had and honestly I've been kind of underwhelmed by them. I had a Toyota Corolla in the mid 2000's and was pretty underwhelmed by its build quality. The Mazdas on the other hand have been really really good to me. I'd buy another of those in a heartbeat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Son of a K-Gun Posted yesterday at 12:46 PM Share Posted yesterday at 12:46 PM Whole lotta Toyotas in here...my winter ride is my Grandpa's old 2002 Camry and it just clocked 125,000 miles. Daily driver is a Jeep Wrangler (with a Wrangler before that, and a Wrangler before that, and a Wrangler before that...) Summer car is a 2017 Abarth 124 Spider. Actually tailgated once with it a couple years ago...surprising how much you can fit in the boot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Augie Posted yesterday at 01:37 PM Share Posted yesterday at 01:37 PM 9 hours ago, ExiledInIllinois said: For the complainers like @Augie... 😉 We're almost evenly divided on a very controversial issue: https://finmasters.com/should-parents-buy-their-child-a-car/ If they can afford it... Sure why not buy your kid a car! More power to them. Give your kid a head start, leg up! Sets them up for long term success. "Pros of Buying Your Child a Car Your child will be able to come up with a million reasons why you should get them a car, probably starting with the fact that their friend got one. But in reality, there are two main reasons to buy them a car instead of letting them do it themselves. First, it’s a chance for you to give your child a financial head start and set them up for long-term success. When you cover the cost of the vehicle, they’ll typically be able to: Avoid taking on an expensive auto loan. Hold onto any cash savings they’ve set aside. Get a car sooner than they could on their own. Second, buying a car for your child means you have direct control over what they drive. You can choose a vehicle that’s safe, reliable, and economical. Left to their own devices, a teenager might buy something they think looks cool and exclude more important considerations." Lots of cool & safe luxury rides! 😆 IDK, I don’t think I’m the one doing most of the complaining. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExiledInIllinois Posted yesterday at 02:40 PM Share Posted yesterday at 02:40 PM 59 minutes ago, Augie said: IDK, I don’t think I’m the one doing most of the complaining. You sure are! 😆 Geesh... Can't parents buy their kid a nice ride presented with a big azz bow on it! If they got it, spend it... More power to them. Everybody drives, you don't have to be a Puritan... Why begrudge them! People spend their money on all kinds of crap, why so judgemental? That 4 Runner probably cost more than a BMW back in day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweats Posted yesterday at 02:45 PM Author Share Posted yesterday at 02:45 PM 1 hour ago, Augie said: IDK, I don’t think I’m the one doing most of the complaining. I really feel like i should be saying something here....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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