This place has become poisonous

[LOVEMESOMEBILLS]

2 minutes ago, uticaclub said:

People need an outlet. There's those that aren't satisfied with just making the playoffs anymore and those fans that are content. 

 

 Stop. Very few, if any are just content on making the playoffs. What do you people do when real bad **** happens in your personal lives? Run to a forum and whine and cry about it? Run to a corner of a dark room and cry yourselves to sleep? Time to take the dresses off and put your big boy pants on, it's been long enough.

 

 

 

 

[uticaclub]

5 minutes ago, LOVEMESOMEBILLS said:

 

 Stop. Very few, if any are just content on making the playoffs. What do you people do when real bad **** happens in your personal lives? Run to a forum and whine and cry about it? Run to a corner of a dark room and cry yourselves to sleep? Time to take the dresses off and put your big boy pants on, it's been long enough.

 

 

 

 

I usually drown it down with brown because no one else is going through what I’m going through. With the Bills I have thousands of others going through the same thing, dealing with the same emotions. And there are plenty completely satisfied with the current direction of the team.

Edited February 11, 2023 by uticaclub

[John from Riverside]

37 minutes ago, Rigotz said:

It’s not a problem with this message board, it’s a problem with the fan base and it’s totally understandable.

 

After a very long history of failure (my entire adult life as I’m 37 years old), there is finally excitement and hope again.

 

Any time that hope is dashed, the feelings are amplified. People feel like THIS is our one and only chance… and perhaps rightfully so.

 

A little bit of understanding and grace will go a long way in just enjoying this historic moment we’re currently in.

I totally agree with you
 

The people that are ruining it by their constant bitching, and not being happy about the historic moment, should take a chill pill

[QB Bills]

Counterpoint..people like the op and those who agree with him/her are the worst kinds of fans. If we win, awesome. If we lose.. it's okay it's just football, go take care of your family. Just the worst kind of condescending, gatekeeping bs that is the real poison . You're starting a thread complaining about other people complaining. Who's the real loser here?

 

If a game doesn't affect you the way it does other fans, then why do you even need to post this here? Beyond that, wtf else are we supposed to be discussing here the week of the super bowl knowing that we could easily have been playing in this game?

 

Some of you have perspective that you believe the rest of us lack. Nonsense, but you do you. Pat yourself on the back. Also know this though, if and when the Bills finally do win it all, it'll feel much better to those of us who are that emotionally invested in them compared to y'all in the level-headed brigade.

Edited February 11, 2023 by QB Bills

[Ridgewaycynic2013]

5 minutes ago, uticaclub said:

I usually drown it down with brown...

Horse?  Skag?  Brownstone?  H?

[Sammy Watkins' Rib]

 

For me personally I never felt higher as a Bills fan than after our demolishing of the Titans in week two. We had huge expectations and up to that point we were actually surpassing them.  But it has been a slow decline since then and I’ve never felt worse as a Bills fan than I do today. 
 

The drought years were filled with terrible teams that had no shot at true success. That made it less painful. These past few years feel like wasted opportunities and even worse I find it hard to imagine excitement for next regular season when it all really boils down to the postseason. 
 

I haven’t listened to sports talk radio of any kind since the Bills lost to the Bengals. It was once a a morning ritual to tune in. As of right now I’m not sure when I will again. 

[gonzo1105]

Welcome to man kind in general as most people are pessimistic. 
 

Most people have a certain level of depression because they work their lives away with very little leisure or meaning to their life.  It’s very sad but true. 
 

Their one hope is the Bills as their dopamine, passion, whatever and when they lose in the playoffs or in general it leads to that further depression again. It’s a very vicious cycle. Combine that with the Bills haven’t been very successful over the years and the build up shows. 
 

I love the Bills always have but I no longer allow them to be my sole source to live my life through. I have to  compartmentalize that they aren’t in my top things that are important in my life. That I can’t let them losing ruin the next 72 hours when people need me to be there. 

Edited February 11, 2023 by gonzo1105

[LabattBlue]

47 minutes ago, Rigotz said:

It’s not a problem with this message board, it’s a problem with the fan base and it’s totally understandable.

 

After a very long history of failure (my entire adult life as I’m 37 years old), there is finally excitement and hope again.

 

Any time that hope is dashed, the feelings are amplified. People feel like THIS is our one and only chance… and perhaps rightfully so.

 

A little bit of understanding and grace will go a long way in just enjoying this historic moment we’re currently in.

What historic moment?

[Ridgewaycynic2013]

2 minutes ago, LabattBlue said:

What historic moment?

🎵This magic moment. 🎶

 

That goes out to Rigotz.  This is Casey Kasem saying "keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars. Zoinks!" 

[Draconator]

53 minutes ago, Airseven said:

But is it “toxic”??

You are

[Bermuda Triangle]

36 minutes ago, HappyDays said:

For me personally my frustration stems from the fact that we finally have an elite QB after a two decade wait and the prime of his career is going to be gone before we know it. So the stakes have gotten much higher. I suspect that many fans feel the same way, consciously or not. The 13 seconds debacle was the epitome of this - our QB had arguably the greatest performance in playoff history but got screwed over by his coaches and teammates (mainly on the defense). So everything is coming to a head now and yes frustrations are boiling over.

The crazy thing to me is that there are people here who will not blame the defense for the KC loss last year.  Never mind the squib kick - what did the defense do on the two plays following?  What did the defense do in the drive immediately preceding :13, and in OT?  

 

It's hard to take those people seriously.

[Mr. WEO]

[jahnyc]

Expectations were really high this season and they were not met.  The success that the team has had during the time that McBeane have been in charge is amazing, particularly when compared to the team's performance prior to their arrival, but the team's success also has caused a readjustment of expectations. which I guess was inevitable.  Not meeting expectations led to scrutiny, with some legitimate questions raised about coaching and the composition of the team.  

 

I think what is causing the current angst and toxicity on the board is the concern that we will not have as much success next year since the coaching staff generally will remain intact and we are limited in our ability to improve player talent, coupled with facing significant free agent losses.  It doesn't help to have concerns about Diggs' happiness with the team and Josh.  Our fan base is particularly sensitive about star players being unhappy about playing for the Bills, and this is an additional layer of angst that we just don't need.

 

McBeane have a lot of pressure this offseason to keep the players motivated and confident while improving the overall talent.  Tough task with the same coaching staff returning and very limited cap space, but let's hope that they can figure out a way to make the moves necessary to get us where we need to be.

Edited February 11, 2023 by jahnyc
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[Talley56]

Super Bowl 58 will be one year from today.  Hopefully we will be at some huge tailgates with excitement over finally seeing the Bills win it all at that point.

[wppete]

1 hour ago, Dr. K said:

I've been a member of this community since the very beginning, in 2001. 

 

Through the depths of the drought, I've never seen so much whining and anger and lashing out as what goes on daily on this board right now. Not everybody is guilty of this—there are a good number of eminently sane people who post here frequently—but the percentage of people acting like three-year-olds having temper tantrums is as high or higher than it has ever been.

 

I went away for the last weeks since the loss to the Bengals thinking that of course people are going to act out their disappointment; it's natural, I thought, let them get it out of their system. But it's as bad this morning as ever. I've tried blocking the worst offenders but the list would be too long to comprehend at this point. If the Bills were to take one fifth of the hysterical suggestions that are made every hour on this board, they would be out of the playoffs for the next twenty years. 

 

I realize this is likely my problem, not yours. So I'm giving it a pass at least until the draft, and maybe until training camp.

 

I hope some of you will get out of the house now and then and breathe some fresh air. 

Take a long break. Don’t rush back. 

[transient]

34 minutes ago, QB Bills said:

Counterpoint..people like the op and those who agree with him/her are the worst kinds of fans. If we win, awesome. If we lose.. it's okay it's just football, go take care of your family. Just the worst kind of condescending, gatekeeping bs that is the real poison . You're starting a thread complaining about other people complaining. Who's the real loser here?

 

If a game doesn't affect you the way it does other fans, then why do you even need to post this here? Beyond that, wtf else are we supposed to be discussing here the week of the super bowl knowing that we could easily have been playing in this game?

 

Some of you have perspective that you believe the rest of us lack. Nonsense, but you do you. Pat yourself on the back. Also know this though, if and when the Bills finally do win it all, it'll feel much better to those of us who are that emotionally invested in them compared to y'all in the level-headed brigade.

The bolded may be the dumbest ####ing thing I have ever seen written on this board, which is saying a lot. 

[Mr. WEO]

36 minutes ago, John from Riverside said:

I totally agree with you
 

The people that are ruining it by their constant bitching, and not being happy about the historic moment, should take a chill pill

 

 

name all the fanbases that deal with another year of legit SB hopes ending in painful playoff exit with "chill pills" and "happy" fans.

 

Disappointment is the more natural response in this scenario---and it may manifest in many forms, from thoughtful to overwrought--far more natural than the "just be happy we have a team in Buffalo that is competitive".  That's actually a pretty abnormal (as these things go) reaction to a season such as the Bills just ended..

 

 

[Chaos]

Nothing makes the board more enjoyable than the self righteousness of the superior fans. 

[Figster]

1 hour ago, Shaw66 said:

Well, I agree to a point, but it's understandable.  What happens every year at this time is people are looking back on the season and talking about what didn't work.  Only time that won't happen is if the Bills win the Super Bowl.  

 

So, what didn't work?   The defense and the offense let the team down in the playoffs.  Why?   Well, that's what people are talking about.  Not very productively, in my opinion, because I think the problems are much more nuanced than people here seem to think, but that's just my opinion.  

 

I am amazed, however, that people think McDermott is the problem.   He's probably a top-five head coach, and people are complaining about him be too soft, or too oriented to the defense, or something.  I don't get that at all. 

Thanks for this

 

Discussion helps ease the frustration IMO. Therapeutic. This topic was therapeutic for OP. One of my favorite posters on twitter plays the devils advocate. Even his positives are given the negatives along it. Myself personally, I don't want to read about how everythings peachy- keen when its not. I'm one of the biggest homers on this forum when it comes to defending the Buffalo Bills. Its not what I come here to read. What draws my interest the most is controversy.

Edited February 11, 2023 by Figster

[BarleyNY]

4 minutes ago, Chaos said:

Nothing makes the board more enjoyable than the self righteousness of the superior fans. 

Especially when those superior fans take time to come here and talk down to the other people on the board? 

Edited February 11, 2023 by BarleyNY