What if the Bills refuse to play the Patriots?

[Augie]

24 minutes ago, HOUSE said:

The post title was what if the Bills refuse to play?

It was never about would the game actually be played

Somehow we got off topic 

 

 

Hey! Have you found your wallet?  

 

 

😋

[Beast]

4 minutes ago, WotAGuy said:

How many Bills or Redskins saw Taylor die?

Having your teammate murdered 5 days before isn’t significant enough in your world to sit the game out?

 

 

 

 

 

Edited January 5, 2023 by Beast

[Buffalo03]

2 hours ago, HOUSE said:

I would back the Bills decision if Hamlin does not drastically improve.

 

Make sure you open this link before replying...

https://www.boston.com/sports/new-england-patriots/2023/01/04/damar-hamlin-decision-bills-patriots-game-postponed/

 

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At what point do you finally say, they have to move forward?

[Sjwalker1]

2 hours ago, HOUSE said:

I would back the Bills decision if Hamlin does not drastically improve.

 

Make sure you open this link before replying...

https://www.boston.com/sports/new-england-patriots/2023/01/04/damar-hamlin-decision-bills-patriots-game-postponed/

 

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I wouldn't back that at all. These are professionals and the least they would dedicate the game to #3. 

[WotAGuy]

Just now, Beast said:

That matters? Having your teammate murdered 5 days before isn’t significant enough in your world to sit the game out?

If you’ve ever watched a loved one die - I have - it matters.  Apparently you have no such experience to be proclaiming anything “bull####”.

[BillsFanSD]

28 minutes ago, Kiva said:

Good post. You in San Diego ? 

Unfortunately no.  It's the other SD.  The cold and windy one.

[HOUSE]

2 minutes ago, Augie said:

 

 

Hey! Have you found your wallet?  

 

 

😋

No, did you find it 

[davefan66]

2 minutes ago, Buffalo03 said:

At what point do you finally say, they have to move forward?

When the team and organization collectively agree to do so. 
 

There is no timeline for, nor should there be.

[Mikie2times]

1 hour ago, HOUSE said:

Nope, it is being discussed in the media, this is a real possibility 

To the chagrin of a few others I brought it up yesterday. If KC wins Saturday, why is it in our best interest to play this game? I don't feel bad for the other teams. Just like on field, if you leave things close enough that refs decide the game its your fault.  If giving us what amounts to a bye week to get right by forfeiting the game and taking the loss, why wouldn't we do that? Also, why does this seem so far fetched? To me, it's almost the logical outcome.  

Edited January 5, 2023 by KzooMike

[Buffalo03]

1 minute ago, davefan66 said:

When the team and organization collectively agree to do so. 
 

There is no timeline for, nor should there be.

We have to move forward. The playoffs are coming up. One game canceled is doable. 2 games becomes a major problem. We have to move forward 

[Beast]

6 minutes ago, WotAGuy said:

If you’ve ever watched a loved one die - I have - it matters.  Apparently you have no such experience to be proclaiming anything “bull####”.

I think most of us have seen a loved one die.

 

I guess responding to the worst mass shooting death in New York State history and having comrades killed on the job, and answering the next call is having no such experience?

I think I’ll extract myself from this thread and let you guys have at it. 

 

 

Edited January 5, 2023 by Beast

[Success]

8 minutes ago, Paup 1995MVP said:

As a human race, we never stop.  We always keep going forward.  Everyone suffers hardship and loss in their lives over time.  That is part of being a human being and living in the world.  When you pass, people maybe upset and care  that you are gone  and miss you.  But the world will keep going on and not miss a beat.   It was a freak thing that happened to Damar Hamlin.  Its upsetting sad and scary for all of us.  But football is a violent game.  The players all know that.  They can be upset.  But they still will need to focus on what they are paid quite well to do.  And that is to block out the distraction and be a baller for 3 plus hours this Sunday.  And keep doing that until they win the Super Bowl or are eliminated.  

 

What a great post. Agree 100%.

 

I've said that I can accept whatever happens from here on out, as others have. If this is too much for the team to overcome, how can I judge that?  

 

But I also think of what Buffalo has been through this year.  A very reasoned argument could be made that they have had a tougher year than any other American city.  And what a boost it could be for the city to have a team go on an inspired run right now.

 

So, I'll accept anything, with gratitude.  But I'm hoping more for the run.

 

[HappyDays]

28 minutes ago, BillsFanSD said:

On the other hand, I'm old enough to have experienced trauma and personal loss.  Everyone my age has done so.  Co-workers die, parents die, friends die, and the expectation has always been that you take a moment to grieve in your own way and then you move on.  This kind of psychological collapse was always reserved for the death of a child or spouse.  I can't wrap my mind around breaking down every time a colleague suffers a grievous injury.

 

There's a really important distinction in what you're referring to and what actually happened, though. Hamlin wasn't in a serious car accident for example. He was almost killed playing the same sport that these players subject themselves to every week, on a seemingly innocuous  hit. What they witnessed is not just something that happened to a colleague, it is an extremly tangible experience for them. It would be more like your truck driver colleague is in a nearly fatal car accident because the brakes in his truck failed, and now you have to drive your truck provided by the same company a few days later. A little bit of extra time off would be understandable.

 

Chris Simms made a great point today, speaking as a former player - cardiac injury is not something that NFL players have internalized as a risk. Everyone knows about head and neck and spine injuries. Mentally and emotionally they've prepared themselves for that risk. This is a totally novel case where a hit these players make/take dozens of times a week almost killed a young man in a terrifying and public way. It's an entirely different avenue of risk that every NFL player is now mentally grappling with, especially the Bills and Bengals players that saw it firsthand. Sitting from the comfort of my living room I can think rationally that since this is the first time something like this has happened in the modern NFL era, there's no use dwelling on the risk of it happening again. But it's understandable if some of the players need a little extra time to make their peace with that.

[KHAN]

I hope they play Sunday. I think they'll play.

 

But to those speaking of the dire consequences if they don't, maybe book a flight to the Ukraine.

 

Those people are facing consequences. This is entertainment. It's quite frankly inconsequential.

 

 

 

[WotAGuy]

1 minute ago, Beast said:

I think most of us have seen a loved one die.

 

I guess responding to the worst mass shooting death in New York State history and having comrades killed on the job, and answering the next call is having no such experience!?

 

 

Then why are you so heartless about how some men you don’t even know handle this situation?  

[Captain Caveman]

1 hour ago, Kiva said:

We are not settling on 3. Our goal in 1 and once we finish and beat the Bengals game and beat NE we will be 1. Potentially Sacrificing a Super Bowl is not the right statement.  

 

If you asked the team if they'd rather have a chance to play Cinci next week for a bye (while giving the whole rest of the AFC a bye in the process) my guess is it might come down 50/50 on whether they'd rather play for it or take the no-contest (or forfeit) and move on to the playoffs as the 2 or 3.  

[Augie]

8 minutes ago, HOUSE said:

No, did you find it 

 

I’m trying to decide between a villa in Tuscany and a cardboard box in an alley. 

[davefan66]

1 minute ago, Buffalo03 said:

We have to move forward. The playoffs are coming up. One game canceled is doable. 2 games becomes a major problem. We have to move forward 

That’s the question, isn’t it? Does the team move forward? If the team doesn’t move forward, how does it impact the season?  

 

Thats up to them to decide. If they choose to play, it is their decision.  If they choose to not play, it is their decision.  I don’t expect McDermott or Beane to force a single one of these guys to do play now, or later.

 

Looking at the players reactions while it happened spoke volumes to me.  This is something a number of them won’t “get over” in 6 days, weeks or maybe months. 

[BillsFanSD]

15 minutes ago, HappyDays said:

 

There's a really important distinction in what you're referring to and what actually happened, though. Hamlin wasn't in a serious car accident for example. He was almost killed playing the same sport that these players subject themselves to every week, on a seemingly innocuous  hit. What they witnessed is not just something that happened to a colleague, it is an extremly tangible experience for them. It would be more like your truck driver colleague is in a nearly fatal car accident because the brakes in his truck failed, and now you have to drive your truck provided by the same company a few days later. A little bit of extra time off would be understandable.

 

Chris Simms made a great point today, speaking as a former player - cardiac injury is not something that NFL players have internalized as a risk. Everyone knows about head and neck and spine injuries. Mentally and emotionally they've prepared themselves for that risk. This is a totally novel case where a hit these players make/take dozens of times a week almost killed a young man in a terrifying and public way. It's an entirely different avenue of risk that every NFL player is now mentally grappling with, especially the Bills and Bengals players that saw it firsthand. Sitting from the comfort of my living room I can think rationally that since this is the first time something like this has happened in the modern NFL era, there's no use dwelling on the risk of it happening again. But it's understandable if some of the players need a little extra time to make their peace with that.

This is a fair point, and it weighs with me when it comes to how we handled the game on Monday.  I respect McDermott and Taylor.  If they felt like their players were not in a position to continue, fine. I will totally defer to their judgement.  I wasn't there and I didn't see what their players saw.  I get how players may have been in shock.  It's understandable. 

 

48 hours later, though, and we're into a situation that I and a whole bunch of other people have experience with.  (Edit: For full disclosure, so people don't get the wrong idea, my parents, wife, and kids are all just fine.  Admittedly my parents are old, but that beats the alternative.  My moments of "trauma" amount to two very bad car accidents in which I was a third party who had to stick around for a police report, two longtime colleagues who dropped dead a few years apart, a close friend of my daughter's who killed somebody in a DUI and went to prison, and my mom being in bicycle accident that landed her in the ICU with a brain injury for five days.  I'm not special and I expect that I would lose a trauma contest to lots of other posters.)

Edited January 5, 2023 by BillsFanSD

[Buffalo03]

4 minutes ago, davefan66 said:

That’s the question, isn’t it? Does the team move forward? If the team doesn’t move forward, how does it impact the season?  

 

Thats up to them to decide. If they choose to play, it is their decision.  If they choose to not play, it is their decision.  I don’t expect McDermott or Beane to force a single one of these guys to do play now, or later.

 

Looking at the players reactions while it happened spoke volumes to me.  This is something a number of them won’t “get over” in 6 days, weeks or maybe months. 

I think they know they have no choice but to move forward. They know they have to. It will be hard this week but they have to do it