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I am not a lawyer, just pretty good at using the Google....

 

New state law extends the statute of limitations for rape in New York

 

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Under the new law, the statute of limitations for reporting second-degree rape increases to 20 years and third-degree rape increases to 10 years. Previously, both were five years.

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The law eliminates the statute of limitations for ***** in the first degree, and extends the statute to 20 years for ***** in the second degree and for a second-degree criminal sexual act. For third-degree criminal sex acts, the statute of limitations is increased to 10 years.

And under the law, victims now have 20 years in which to bring a civil suit for the offenses.

 

She may be 10 years too late. 

 

 

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Umm, it was 29 years ago.

 

Why wait almost three decades to accuse someone?    It seems like the details needed to prove such a thing would be extremely difficult to both recall and to accept as reliable. 

 

I predict this will go nowhere.

 

 

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6 minutes ago, Sheneneh Jenkins said:

Wha? What's hardly the same thing? Don't know what you're talking about? Unless you mean 17 yrs old and 27 yrs old are hardly the same and no longer a teenager? In which case you would be agreeing with me

 

I ignore a LOT of stupid ***** on here, but I don't have to ignore you when you say you have a hard time believing a victim of sexual assault.  That's what I mean.

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Just now, BRH said:

 

I ignore a LOT of stupid ***** on here, but I don't have to ignore you when you say you have a hard time believing a victim of sexual assault.  That's what I mean.

Not sure why you are not understanding what I said....again, it's clearly not that I have a hard time believing someone about this. It's The. 30. Years. That. Makes. Me. Have. A. Hard. Time. Believing.

 

I can't be any clearer than that....

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4 hours ago, Beast said:

The Bills and the NFL failed to supervise him.

 

Money grab right there but it won’t work. That will get tossed.

 

It only took 4 posts for someone to call her a money grubbing s***

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2 minutes ago, blitzboy54 said:

 

It only took 4 posts for someone to call her a money grubbing s***

I mean it happens far too often. So it's logical to think it's a good possibility.

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2 hours ago, Eastport bills said:

With all respect and compassion for victims of sexual abuse, after 30 years to file a complaint against an ex ballplayer to extract a monetary award is a little much. To pile on this guy because he had a previous conviction is just the wrong precedent to set. He should be given the presumption of innocence until overwhelmingly evidence is presented. Why would any victim bury something that was so damaging for 30 years? These exfootball players are easy targets. 


Sexual assault has a stigma that many women don’t want given to them.  That’s why so many sexually abused women never tell their story.  They are scared if not being believed, especially if the accused is famous as CB was back then.  They are also scared of the offender, especially one that was in the public eye.  

 

If she was assaulted, she has every right to do what she’s doing.  Regardless of time frames.

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4 minutes ago, Sheneneh Jenkins said:

Not sure why you are not understanding what I said....again, it's clearly not that I have a hard time believing someone about this. It's The. 30. Years. That. Makes. Me. Have. A. Hard. Time. Believing.

 

I can't be any clearer than that....

 

The mistake you're making is in thinking that 1992 was no different from 2021.  As Caveman said, even aside from the culture change, just think about how popular and powerful the Bills' players were in 1992, if you were even around then.  And think about the rumors that were going around about certain players who were idolized in this community that never resulted in anything.  I was in law school in Buffalo in the late '90s and a team executive (who is still there) came and talked to us about his job... and joked about how many paternity suits he had to deal with.  This ***** was happening and Bennett wasn't the only one.   Unfortunately it is still happening (see, e.g., Deshaun Watson, Trevor Bauer) but it got swept under the rug a hell of a lot more often back then, and for every brave woman that came forward I bet there were dozens who suffered in silence because they didn't think anyone would believe them.  

 

Just now, Sheneneh Jenkins said:

I mean it happens far too often. So it's logical to think it's a good possibility.

 

We agree that something happens far too often, but we don't agree on what that is.

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4 minutes ago, BRH said:

 

The mistake you're making is in thinking that 1992 was no different from 2021.  As Caveman said, even aside from the culture change, just think about how popular and powerful the Bills' players were in 1992, if you were even around then.  And think about the rumors that were going around about certain players who were idolized in this community that never resulted in anything.  I was in law school in Buffalo in the late '90s and a team executive (who is still there) came and talked to us about his job... and joked about how many paternity suits he had to deal with.  This ***** was happening and Bennett wasn't the only one.   Unfortunately it is still happening (see, e.g., Deshaun Watson, Trevor Bauer) but it got swept under the rug a hell of a lot more often back then, and for every brave woman that came forward I bet there were dozens who suffered in silence because they didn't think anyone would believe them.  

 

 

We agree that something happens far too often, but we don't agree on what that is.

Yes, and I don’t know the guilt or innocence of either one of those guys, but are they more likely to walk free than a random working class guy ? Absolutely, more is coming out these days, but more often than  not the athlete still doesn’t pay the price, so coming forward continues to be quite intimidating imo. 

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12 minutes ago, BRH said:

 

The mistake you're making is in thinking that 1992 was no different from 2021.  As Caveman said, even aside from the culture change, just think about how popular and powerful the Bills' players were in 1992, if you were even around then.  And think about the rumors that were going around about certain players who were idolized in this community that never resulted in anything.  I was in law school in Buffalo in the late '90s and a team executive (who is still there) came and talked to us about his job... and joked about how many paternity suits he had to deal with.  This ***** was happening and Bennett wasn't the only one.   Unfortunately it is still happening (see, e.g., Deshaun Watson, Trevor Bauer) but it got swept under the rug a hell of a lot more often back then, and for every brave woman that came forward I bet there were dozens who suffered in silence because they didn't think anyone would believe them.  

 

 

We agree that something happens far too often, but we don't agree on what that is.

Popular or not, you can't sit there and say a lot of these bogus lawsuits that are just a money grab doesn't happen to "popular" people. Hell that's mainly the ones it happens to the most anyways is ppl with lots of money.

 

With that happening as much as it does, it's not crazy to make you question things. If you can't get that then I got nothing for ya.

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1 hour ago, Chandler#81 said:

Quit while you’re ahead.

 

Wait.

 

Too late for that. 🤦‍♂️

 

Were you trying to quote something else?

 

Anyway, congrats to the folks on the board (including mods?) who are getting off on feeling superior to someone who chose to report sexual violence.

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2 hours ago, BigBuff423 said:

 

I have no idea if her claims are true or not and I won't try to be a legal expert myself. However, the bolded portion has to do with the outcome or objective and as men, we tend to focus on those narrow parameters. But often traumatized victims find the goal to be processing their own grief and she might have had treatment or therapy encouraging her to have a voice. Giving herself a voice to name her abuser and pull herself out of the victimization by casting aside her shame and announcing her ability to survive after many years of broken and failed relationships, peripheral substance abuse or an inability to re-enter society as she did before she was allegedly victimized. Again, I'm in no way validating OR doubting her statements - I take a completely neutral take to these accusations, but I am also seeing it from more than just an objective based approach by indicating the process itself for the victim, has value (again without saying she is or isn't a victim). The worth is in the voice being heard, the guilt and shame of sexual trauma being removed from her own mind, and trying to find some way to heal and obtain a sense of closure. 

 

2 hours ago, Gugny said:

 

Perhaps she was inspired by the Nirvana baby.

These two quotes are exactly what a sexual assault thread on TBD is all about. Well done, both of you! 

 

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16 minutes ago, Sheneneh Jenkins said:

Popular or not, you can't sit there and say a lot of these bogus lawsuits that are just a money grab doesn't happen to "popular" people. Hell that's mainly the ones it happens to the most anyways is ppl with lots of money.

 

With that happening as much as it does, it's not crazy to make you question things. If you can't get that then I got nothing for ya.

 

There are hundreds of thousands of sexual assaults in the US every year.  When you say bogus lawsuit, I assume you are referring to one where it is proved that the allegation didn't happen - how many of those can you name?  Out of the hundreds of thousands of sexual assaults every year (many of whom do not report or wait years or decades to report),  it's unfortunate that that's what you're choosing to focus on.

 

 

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11 minutes ago, Captain Caveman said:

congrats to the folks on the board (including mods?) who are getting off on feeling superior to someone who chose to report sexual violence.

There you go implying some are "feeling superior" to those that chose to report. That's where you couldn't be more wrong. I definitely applaud those that do speak up that truly went through such a terrible thing. It seems as if you think nobody ever lies about this either.

 

You probably praise  the Nirvana dude for being so strong to speak up after 30 years for all of a sudden feeling victimized right?

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7 hours ago, billsfan1959 said:

 

OK, I'm not a fan of these retrospective lawsuits occurring 29 years after the event.  I don't think they're fair to anyone.  But it's her right to sue Bennett for what [she says] he did.

 

This, though?  Does it say anywhere how she feels the Bills "knew or should have known" about the attack?  Did she report it to police and to the NFL at the time? 

 

What type of supervision is an employer reasonably, under the law, expected to exercise, over an employee who is not at work, at his place of employement, or engaged in an employment-related activity at the time?

 

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the woman accused the NFL and the Buffalo Bills of failing to properly supervise Bennett while he interacted with patrons at the bar. She claimed that they knew, or should have known, about the attack

 

 

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22 minutes ago, Sheneneh Jenkins said:

There you go implying some are "feeling superior" to those that chose to report. That's where you couldn't be more wrong. I definitely applaud those that do speak up that truly went through such a terrible thing. It seems as if you think nobody ever lies about this either.

 

You probably praise  the Nirvana dude for being so strong to speak up after 30 years for all of a sudden feeling victimized right?

This has been my issue with reading through this topic. I take life on a case by case basis, rather than following a series of rigid beliefs. There’s no reason for me not to believe this, and Biscuit did that to himself. The dude is a registered offender with a history. That criminal history follows a guy his entire life. So regardless of how we feel about the victim motives or legitimacy, I don’t find it an outrage that he has to deal with this years later. 
 

Most of this board wouldn’t hire him, rent him an apartment, or want him in their neighborhood if they didn’t know him as Bill.  I won’t challenge anyone on their legal system beliefs regarding the validity of time limitations. I fully understand the problem with retroactive lawsuits. I’m someone who thinks much of the MeToo stuff got out of control, and not everything should be taken at face value, that’s a dangerous precedent. It’s just that I see a difference between first time harassment offenders and violent offenders with a history. Her motives might not be the best, I will acknowledge that, but I don’t see Bennett as a potential victim the way I might see others who are accused. 

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1 hour ago, Sheneneh Jenkins said:

I mean it happens far too often. So it's logical to think it's a good possibility.

 

You can't know that as much as I can't know if she's telling the truth. Statistic prove out that the "fake claim for money" is not very common. 

 

I'm not going to take you too seriously though.

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5 hours ago, UConn James said:


Lawyers go after who has the most money. Just name them in the lawsuit for publicity factor and figure / hope they’ll settle for some 💰 to make it go away. If CB did this, then it’s HIS fault, not the Bills & NFL. #🤬Lawyers

 

Call it what you want, but the time for this was 30 years ago. It’s now even more of a he-said-she-said case unless there is some physical evidence, and they are relying on the current climate as a way to tip the balance.

Ah  30 years ago for him   Emotional damage can take years to surface and greatly effect a person's entire life.  

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I've heard a few stories from back in the day about how he was a total jerk to fans and even kids that wanted autographs. One buddy of mine had his card ripped up by him at camp when he gave it to him to sign when he was little. I know there was a lot of arrogance on that squad, but I think he was at an extreme with his attitude. I always wondered why he never got more accolades like the Bills Wall of Fame and even a Hall of Fame nod and maybe some of this behavior is the reason? 

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