Dkollidas Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 As someone on the cusp of being a first time dad (she’s due end of the month), I couldn’t imagine... Prayers for him, the wife, and the family. 1
McBean Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 Just listened to him talk on WGR. I feel awful that I’ve given him such crap over the years. Prayers up to you Jeremy and your family.
Buffalo716 Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 This is tragic.. it's really hard to find words.. GOD works in mysterious ways and I hope the LORD comforts them and brings them peace and eventually happy healthy children I couldn't imagine 1
YoloinOhio Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 (edited) 30 minutes ago, Royale with Cheese said: Well it was announced publicly on August 20th so we know for sure it wasn't that long. Even if they didn't tell anyone for a month...these babies were probably premature by about 10-12 weeks. he said the due date was the day of the Steelers game which is 12/15. So your time frame sounds correct. Edited October 1, 2019 by YoloinOhio 1 1
YoloinOhio Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 On a lighter note glad to hear he plans to go to the Sabres home opener. Have to try to move on and live life, as brutal as it is. Will be back on air next week, probably will help take his mind off it, at least for a few hours a day.
C.Biscuit97 Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 Figured it was something less this when he disappeared for a while on social media. I can’t imagine the swing of emotions - you’re pregnant, it’s actually 4!, and now this. And it’s hard enough to do this in private but it must be really rough when you are a public figure. Just awful and prayers to his family. 53 minutes ago, Buffalo716 said: This is tragic.. it's really hard to find words.. GOD works in mysterious ways and I hope the LORD comforts them and brings them peace and eventually happy healthy children I couldn't imagine As a catholic, I always struggled with this part. Why purpose does kids dying serve? Not too get too deep and this is a high risk pregnancy, but things like SID and childhood cancer are when I struggle with God and The purpose. Sorry if this is out of place here. 1
Geo in Pa Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 Just terrible, hope they can find some solice.
Buffalo716 Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 25 minutes ago, C.Biscuit97 said: Figured it was something less this when he disappeared for a while on social media. I can’t imagine the swing of emotions - you’re pregnant, it’s actually 4!, and now this. And it’s hard enough to do this in private but it must be really rough when you are a public figure. Just awful and prayers to his family. As a catholic, I always struggled with this part. Why purpose does kids dying serve? Not too get too deep and this is a high risk pregnancy, but things like SID and childhood cancer are when I struggle with God and The purpose. Sorry if this is out of place here. I can't tell you and I'm a lifelong Catholic as well But I know through all the hell I've seen and fine through my faith hasn't waivered 1
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 27 minutes ago, C.Biscuit97 said: As a catholic, I always struggled with this part. Why purpose does kids dying serve? Not too get too deep and this is a high risk pregnancy, but things like SID and childhood cancer are when I struggle with God and The purpose. Sorry if this is out of place here. I'm a reformed guy. The standard answer to that question is that God knows the beginning, the end and everything in between, and that we have to trust Him in all things, both good and bad. Easier said than done. 3 1 2
GunnerBill Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 What a great shame for him and his wife. Life can be cruel. 1
thebandit27 Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 (edited) 3 hours ago, C.Biscuit97 said: Figured it was something less this when he disappeared for a while on social media. I can’t imagine the swing of emotions - you’re pregnant, it’s actually 4!, and now this. And it’s hard enough to do this in private but it must be really rough when you are a public figure. Just awful and prayers to his family. As a catholic, I always struggled with this part. Why purpose does kids dying serve? Not too get too deep and this is a high risk pregnancy, but things like SID and childhood cancer are when I struggle with God and The purpose. Sorry if this is out of place here. I don't know the answer. But I can tell you my experience dealing with miscarriage and faith... Mrs. Bandit and I have twin boys, born on Valentines Day just like Jim (and Hunter) Kelly. It was an easy pregnancy for Mrs. B. Boys were healthy, happy, and are 6 years old now. Then came the shitstorm. We decided to try again. And again it happened fast. And again, the doc saw two embryos. Unbelievable. Due on July 4th, another set of holiday twins! Except that in the next appointment, there was only one...and it had no heartbeat. They'd be 2 now. We decided to try again. What we didn't know was that we'd go through the same things another 3 times. We were so mad, confused, frustrated, etc. But the one thing that we refused to do was lose faith. I believed that if we were meant to have more children, it would happen in God's timeframe. So we prayed. A lot. And I felt lead that we should try once more, and only once more. Mrs. Bandit agreed. 30 days from now, my daughter will turn 1. On Halloween. Another holiday baby. She is my miracle baby; the child we waited 3 years for. Sometimes it's incredibly difficult to remain sad about our loss when we're so fortunate to have her. Then I feel guilty; as though the feeling of loss means that her and the boys somehow aren't enough. I don't mean to make this thread about me. It's not. I am crushed for the White family, and I share this story so that anyone that's struggling with losing a child (even an unborn one) knows they're not alone. And on the issue of faith, I don't mean to say that nobody can get through such pain without it; I only know that I couldn't have. Edited October 2, 2019 by thebandit27 2 7
4merper4mer Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 Devastating and heartbreaking. My prayers to them. 1
Augie Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 15 minutes ago, thebandit27 said: I don't know the answer. But I can tell you my experience dealing with miscarriage and faith... Mrs. Bandit and I have twin boys, born on Valentines Day just like Jim (and Hunter) Kelly. It was an easy pregnancy for Mrs. B. Boys were healthy, happy, and are 6 years old now. Then came the shitstorm. We decided to try again. And again it happened fast. And again, the doc saw two embryos. Unbelievable. Due on July 4th, another set of holiday twins! Except that in the next appointment, there was only one...and it had no heartbeat. They'd be 2 now. We decided to try again. What we didn't know was that we'd go through the same things another 3 times. We were so mad, confused, frustrated, etc. But the one thing that we refused to do was lose faith. I believed that if we were meant to have more children, it would happen in God's timeframe. So we prayed. A lot. And I felt lead that we should try once more, and only once more. Mrs. Bandit agreed. 30 days from now, my daughter will turn 1. On Halloween. Another holiday baby. She is my miracle baby; the child we waited 3 years for. Sometimes it's incredibly difficult to remain sad about our loss when we're so fortunate to have her. Then I feel guilty; as though the feeling of loss means that her and the boys somehow aren't enough. I don't mean to make this thread about me. It's not. I am crushed for the White family, and I share this story so that anyone that's struggling with losing a child (even an unborn one) knows they're not alone. And on the issue of faith, I don't mean to say that nobody can get through such pain without it; I only know that I couldn't have. We don’t know the plan. It’s not meant to be that way. But I’m with you, I rely upon my faith to keep going despite what obstacles get in our way. The more you face, the more you need your faith. May the White family find strength and peace. 2
Captain Murica Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 I was in the middle of my workout before class and work today when I tuned in for Howard Picks the Bills then stayed tuned in heard White was coming on. I literally started tearing up and had to go to the rest room to compose myself. It just flat out sucks and no one deserves to go through that.
Bills!Win! Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 How would I be able to send Jeremy and his wife a message of support ? 1
The Red King Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 5 hours ago, YoloinOhio said: he said the due date was the day of the Steelers game which is 12/15. So your time frame sounds correct. Already choked up, and consider myself lucky to have my two kids. But this...that due date is actually my son's birthday. Just a weird coincidence, but somehow makes me feel luckier to have him. This news is terrible. My mom lost a child before she had me and I can still hear the pain in her voice decades later when she talks about it. I simply cannot imagine what those two are going through now losing four together. It must be utterly soul-crushing. All I can offer are my prayers and condolences. Nobody should ever go through the pain of losing a child, especially losing four in quick succession. I hope they can one day find peace. Sadly, the pain is going to last a long, long time.
Agent 91 Posted October 2, 2019 Posted October 2, 2019 I almost had to turn it off. That was almost too raw for me. He did well to keep it together. I couldn't imagine. I just kept seeing my 2 year old baby boys face. Wanting to hug him as tight as possible. Jeremy earned so much respect as a man. Forget sports forget everything else. He is a man first. And he is hurting. I usually dont do it. But 4 kids. My prayers are for him his wife and his whole family as they move through this 1
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