mrags Posted March 30, 2019 Posted March 30, 2019 12 minutes ago, John from Riverside said: I have outlived my pets for too long and tired of going through the aftermath. I will have no more.....my girlfriends dog needed some kind of surgery today and rather then her lose her dog I just paid it I dont care if it left me broke till the end of the month. THis has given me some comfort over the years. I hope it does some for you: https://www.rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm Love this poem
Not at the table Karlos Posted March 30, 2019 Posted March 30, 2019 It sucks to put it mildly. Had to say good bye to my cat about 10 years ago. Still bothers me. Currently have 3 older pets that arent doing too good. A 20 year old bird i got in middle school. A 15 year old cat that was diagnosed with aggressive bladder cancer a little over a week ago. A 17 year old cat that has kidney problems. They all require medication everyday. Have had them all half my life or more. It sucks thinking about it. I lost my train of thought.. I hope things get better and we're all here for you if things get tough 1
Ol Dirty B Posted March 30, 2019 Author Posted March 30, 2019 Appreciate all the kind words. I had texted my mother last night after I stopped over just saying I'd be over this morning because I didnt feel like I spent enough time with her last night. I showed up and sadly she was gone, they went this morning. Thanks to all of you for your thoughts, I've read every post more than once. 6
Augie Posted March 30, 2019 Posted March 30, 2019 19 hours ago, Gugny said: I have a 10-year-old dog (birthday is July 22) who has a cancerous growth on a lymph node near her groinal area. I opted to not do surgery (I had another mass removed from her stomach last year) or any kind of chemo. The vet prescribed prednisone and told me to give her Benadryl twice/day. So far, over a month later, the mass has not grown. Chloe acts perfectly normal. The way I explained it to my 16-year-old son is this: Once Chloe isn't happy anymore, then it's time to say goodbye. She's been the happiest dog I've ever known since we've had her. It's all she knows. Once that's taken from her, then it's time to let her go, because that's not how she's used to living. I'm happy that she's still going about her business as if nothing's wrong. I know how quickly things can change and I cherish every moment with her. But I know my girl. And I know when it will be time to let her go. I wish you, your dog and your family the best as you go through this difficult time. One of my favorite things about dogs is they never feel sorry for themselves. I wish I could say the same, but I’d be lying. I remember someone once asking “are we the only creatures aware of our own mortality?” Umm...I don’t know, and is that a good thing or a bad thing? As long as a dog is happy and still out of pain, I’m good. When it’s time.....we treat them better than we do ourselves, in some ways. May God bless our dogs! 1 1
Buffalo716 Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 1 hour ago, Ol Dirty B said: Appreciate all the kind words. I had texted my mother last night after I stopped over just saying I'd be over this morning because I didnt feel like I spent enough time with her last night. I showed up and sadly she was gone, they went this morning. Thanks to all of you for your thoughts, I've read every post more than once. My biggest condolences I feel your pain 1
Nanker Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 My condolences. Dogs become like children in a family. Their passing is very difficult to bear. We we had a 12 year old Bernese Mountain Dog that had hip displaysia and had gotten to the point where he was in a lot of pain and had enormous trouble just standing up. We we decided that keeping him alive was simply selfish on our part because we loved him so and couldn’t bear the thought of putting him down. At at some point it’s the right thing to do. I cried like a baby when we did it. Peace. 1
Misterbluesky Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 2 hours ago, Ol Dirty B said: Appreciate all the kind words. I had texted my mother last night after I stopped over just saying I'd be over this morning because I didnt feel like I spent enough time with her last night. I showed up and sadly she was gone, they went this morning. Thanks to all of you for your thoughts, I've read every post more than once. I'm sorry for your loss.The best to you and your family during this difficult time. 1
Tierlifer Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 Sorry to the OP for your loss. It truly is the effin worst to go through this. I’ve owned Boxers who have shorter life spans than most so I’ve been there and done that a few times. Sorry to hear this and thinking of you! 1
boater Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 23 hours ago, /dev/null said: take some solace knowing that when your time comes, she'll be there wagging her tail for you This I firmly believe. I don't have scientific evidence, it's just something I feel. I am not alone. Hang in there Bro. I am going through similar experience and feel validated that others have the same issues 1 1
Ol Dirty B Posted March 31, 2019 Author Posted March 31, 2019 3 hours ago, Augie said: One of my favorite things about dogs is they never feel sorry for themselves. I wish I could say the same, but I’d be lying. I remember someone once asking “are we the only creatures aware of our own mortality?” Umm...I don’t know, and is that a good thing or a bad thing? As long as a dog is happy and still out of pain, I’m good. When it’s time.....we treat them better than we do ourselves, in some ways. May God bless our dogs! I disagree with you at times, and have said things not intended that could misinterpreted, which is my fault. But you're genuinely a good dude, don't change. Even if I give you ***** for not liking a thread that turns out to be a joke on leading the charge.
Ol Dirty B Posted March 31, 2019 Author Posted March 31, 2019 On 3/29/2019 at 11:21 PM, Mike in Horseheads said: Just plan sucks. Buster my last dog died 3 months after my dad 12 years ago. take care I didnt respond to you. Just wanna say I feel for you that's way rougher than my situation. Hope all is well now. On 3/29/2019 at 10:42 PM, Buffalo716 said: This is a super tough decision that only you can make in the end... i went through a sick dog 4 years ago... she was my best friend... got cancer suddenly at 12 and stopped eating... I couldn’t put her down i tried spending as much time with her over her last 2 weeks... it was tough and I questioned if I made the right choice i would never take my time back with her Thanks for your response man. I feel inclined to acknowledge everyone. Feel just like that.
Augie Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 (edited) 11 hours ago, Ol Dirty B said: I disagree with you at times, and have said things not intended that could misinterpreted, which is my fault. But you're genuinely a good dude, don't change. Even if I give you ***** for not liking a thread that turns out to be a joke on leading the charge. We are all just what we are..... Simple, really. A lesson I learned long ago is the importance of how we express that. I’m not one to take up arms against those I have petty disagreements with, but I’m pretty sure we all agree on the important stuff in life. What we have in common is greater than our differences. The loss of a pet is the loss of a family member. People who don’t get that won’t understand. They are also missing out in many ways. . Edited March 31, 2019 by Augie 1
Ol Dirty B Posted March 31, 2019 Author Posted March 31, 2019 4 hours ago, Buffalo716 said: My biggest condolences I feel your pain Thanks, genuinely appreciate it. It was a rough day. It sucks because we had a good life together so in perspective it's not that bad. I feel bad feeling bad because so many others have it worse. 1 minute ago, Augie said: We are all just what we are..... Simple, really. A lesson I learned long ago is the importance of how we express that. I’m not one to take up arms against those I have petty disagreements with, but I’m pretty sure we all agree on the important stuff in life. What we have in common is greater than our differences. The loss of a pet is the loss of a family member. People who don’t get that won’t understand. They are also missing out in many way, Again you're a great guy. I'm still gonna be a ***** poster at times. Just appreciate the responses. I live in Rochester, it has been overcast rainy and foggy up near the lake where I stay at. Oddly I enjoy it. Yesterday when things were bad and it was nice and everyone loved it. I wasn't mad it just didnt reflect my mood. Today does, maybe I'm a weird kind of optimist but the rain and all that ***** felt good today. I'm just rambling. People get a bad reputation. I believe deep down we're all good and empathize.
Augie Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 2 minutes ago, Ol Dirty B said: Thanks, genuinely appreciate it. It was a rough day. It sucks because we had a good life together so in perspective it's not that bad. I feel bad feeling bad because so many others have it worse. I hope you can remember the joy you had, THAT is your gift. Nothing lasts forever....except the joy you chose to carry forward. 1
Ol Dirty B Posted March 31, 2019 Author Posted March 31, 2019 Just now, Augie said: I hope you can remember the joy you had, THAT is your gift. Nothing lasts forever....except the joy you chose to carry forward. Wise words from a wise man.
Buffalo716 Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, Ol Dirty B said: Thanks, genuinely appreciate it. It was a rough day. It sucks because we had a good life together so in perspective it's not that bad. I feel bad feeling bad because so many others have it worse. Again you're a great guy. I'm still gonna be a ***** poster at times. Just appreciate the responses. I live in Rochester, it has been overcast rainy and foggy up near the lake where I stay at. Oddly I enjoy it. Yesterday when things were bad and it was nice and everyone loved it. I wasn't mad it just didnt reflect my mood. Today does, maybe I'm a weird kind of optimist but the rain and all that ***** felt good today. I'm just rambling. People get a bad reputation. I believe deep down we're all good and empathize. No you have a right to feel pain... animals, dogs are our companions for a reason they love us and care more about us than themselves... it’s only right we give it back as much as possible... and grieving is totally fine Edited March 31, 2019 by Buffalo716 2 1
/dev/null Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 3 hours ago, boater said: This I firmly believe. I don't have scientific evidence, it's just something I feel. I am not alone. When I was a kid we had a dog that was part of the family. When he died we all grieved for him My parents kept his ashes in their bedroom When my Mom died, we buried his ashes with her. I have not doubt the two of them are together 1 1
Ol Dirty B Posted March 31, 2019 Author Posted March 31, 2019 26 minutes ago, /dev/null said: When I was a kid we had a dog that was part of the family. When he died we all grieved for him My parents kept his ashes in their bedroom When my Mom died, we buried his ashes with her. I have not doubt the two of them are together Man, that is some perspective. Appreciate all your posts. I've been lucky between here, and work where I didnt tell anyone. Everyone has been great. I found out about it like a half hour before my shift because I stopped over just to see her. I had to make the call to my brother because my mom was struggling and I didnt want him to show up and get the same unfortunate surprise. The owner told me I could go home, but it wouldn't have changed anything. I didnt want him to be stuck working another 8 hours and I wouldn't have done anything besides what I'm doing now. Thanks to all of y'all letting me vent.
Buffalo716 Posted March 31, 2019 Posted March 31, 2019 16 minutes ago, Ol Dirty B said: Man, that is some perspective. Appreciate all your posts. I've been lucky between here, and work where I didnt tell anyone. Everyone has been great. I found out about it like a half hour before my shift because I stopped over just to see her. I had to make the call to my brother because my mom was struggling and I didnt want him to show up and get the same unfortunate surprise. The owner told me I could go home, but it wouldn't have changed anything. I didnt want him to be stuck working another 8 hours and I wouldn't have done anything besides what I'm doing now. Thanks to all of y'all letting me vent. Ya know ... for the name ol Dirty B you don’t seem that old lol unless it’s a reference to Ol dirty Chinese restaurant which I suspect prayers brotha 1
Ol Dirty B Posted March 31, 2019 Author Posted March 31, 2019 (edited) 48 minutes ago, Buffalo716 said: Ya know ... for the name ol Dirty B you don’t seem that old lol unless it’s a reference to Ol dirty Chinese restaurant which I suspect prayers brotha Lol no it's a reference to old dirty bastard of the wu tang clan. Don't think it's any better. Odb before odb got hijacked by the wr was someone else. A trainwreck, but someone with a unique personality that I for some reason like. Edit- I changed it from thanks to laughing because your post is hilarious. Edited March 31, 2019 by Ol Dirty B 1
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