Happy Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 There's a reason why he turned out the way he did. Maybe not entirely his fault. Just sad. https://nypost.com/2018/10/14/aaron-hernandez-had-sexual-relationship-with-hs-quarterback/ "NFL-star-turned-killer Aaron Hernandez hid a longtime sexual relationship with his high-school quarterback, according to a new report that also said the troubled late footballer was physically and sexually abused as a youngster." "Hernandez, who committed suicide behind bars in 2017, after which rumors of homosexuality surfaced, “had a feminine way about him” that his father, Dennis Hernandez, abhorred, the paper said. The volatile dad was quick to discipline his son for not appearing masculine enough, according to Hernandez’s brother, Jonathan."
RaoulDuke79 Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 (edited) I dont feel bad for him. Not one bit......and the fact that its from the NY Post makes me question how true the story is. Edited October 14, 2018 by RaoulDuke79 2
boyst Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 !@#$ him. sucks he was that mentally ill to kill himself, but he should have faced his consequences and got what he deserved instead of taking the easy way out. i'm sure he was mentally ill for numerous reasons: sane people don't kill people, sane people don't kill themselves, and obviously he was deeply troubled. but, !@#$ him and the ny post. 1
row_33 Posted October 14, 2018 Posted October 14, 2018 Read the recent bio on him, rough upbringing but not an excuse for what he did
Doc Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 It's sad what happened to him to make him the way he was. And I think he committed suicide because he knew he wasn't getting out of prison and so that his estate could keep the money from the Cheaters. Not sure if it worked but probably the sanest thing he'd done in years.
bbb Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 4 hours ago, Happy Gilmore said: "NFL-star-turned-killer Aaron Hernandez hid a longtime sexual relationship with his high-school quarterback, I thought you became a football star to bang hot chicks, not the quarterback?!? 1 2
NoSaint Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 5 hours ago, RaoulDuke79 said: I dont feel bad for him. Not one bit......and the fact that its from the NY Post makes me question how true the story is. I might be crazy but I feel some compassion towards the kid living through physical and sexual abuse even if I don’t think that lets the adult off the hook for the murders. 1
mrags Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 Anyone that feels bad for a convicted murderer has serious issues, should probably see someone. 1
Fadingpain Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 2 hours ago, bbb said: I thought you became a football star to bang hot chicks, not the quarterback?!? Depends on your orientation. Every lock room in the NFL surely has a few homosexuals in it. 1
ExiledInIllinois Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 #AaronHernandezToo ??? Doesn't matter if scumbags abuse You, don't pass the scumbaggery on. Break the cycle. Even know it's from Will Smith and look how "brilliant" and "well adjusted" [ /smh ] His progeny turned out to be, I think this still holds true and can be revisited: "...Disrespect you and treat you badLet God deal with the things they do'Cause hate in your heart will consume you tooAlways tell the truth, say your prayers..." 6 hours ago, mrags said: Anyone that feels bad for a convicted murderer has serious issues, should probably see someone. Meta' di mezza.
row_33 Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 His conduct was constantly papered over by Urban in Florida shoulda let him take the consequences and learn
Soda Popinski Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 2 hours ago, row_33 said: His conduct was constantly papered over by Urban in Florida shoulda let him take the consequences and learn That seems to be Meyer's MO no matter where he is. Whitewash the terrible things and do whatever it takes to win.
Koko78 Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 A horrible childhood does not excuse being a gang-banger murderer.
thebandit27 Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 13 hours ago, mrags said: Anyone that feels bad for a convicted murderer has serious issues, should probably see someone. Can't someone both (a) feel bad that horrible things were done to him and (b) believe that he is still responsible for his own actions? I mean that rhetorically; that's actually exactly how I feel. 2
row_33 Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 12 hours ago, Fadingpain said: Depends on your orientation. Every lock room in the NFL surely has a few homosexuals in it. Shall I ask how you KNOW this (and not in the biblical sense)
Happy Posted October 15, 2018 Author Posted October 15, 2018 1 minute ago, thebandit27 said: Can't someone both (a) feel bad that horrible things were done to him and (b) believe that he is still responsible for his own actions? I mean that rhetorically; that's actually exactly how I feel. This is where I'm at. I certainly feel for the victims and their families, which Hernandez is responsible for. The point is, life experiences shape who you are, for better or worse. Hernandez was a weak individual who could not overcome an abusive childhood. As BB described the situation - tragic.
GoBills808 Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 4 minutes ago, thebandit27 said: Can't someone both (a) feel bad that horrible things were done to him and (b) believe that he is still responsible for his own actions? I mean that rhetorically; that's actually exactly how I feel. That's how I feel as well. Statistically, being abused as a child isn't an excuse for criminal behavior as an adult so much as it's an explanation. It's one of the reasons I tend to be in favor of harsher punishments for convicted child abusers.
ExiledInIllinois Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 (edited) 32 minutes ago, thebandit27 said: Can't someone both (a) feel bad that horrible things were done to him and (b) believe that he is still responsible for his own actions? I mean that rhetorically; that's actually exactly how I feel. Yep. Of course! That's what I posted. In three words. Edited October 15, 2018 by ExiledInIllinois
Buffalo716 Posted October 15, 2018 Posted October 15, 2018 (edited) My mother was sexually abused as a child.. a little 5 year old girl she doesn’t complain and she certainly never snapped and became a killer... i feel sorry for his victims and their families. He made his decisions Edited October 15, 2018 by Buffalo716 2
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