DC Tom Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 9 minutes ago, Azalin said: And it's good to see someone who knows the proper use of the word verisimilitude. But can he obfuscate with it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azalin Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 4 minutes ago, DC Tom said: But can he obfuscate with it? There's no doubt in my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GG Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 (edited) 10 hours ago, Juror#8 said: There is a hood motif - “if you want to get out of the hood you either sell crack rock or have a wicked jump shot.” As cynical as that is, it’s a prevailing theme in the parts of the inner city that I’ve lived in. No one extolled the benefits of academic success. You went to school so you didn’t have to see the truancy officers and the truancy vans. Not because it was an avenue to success. Thanks for adding to the story you started a few years back. But I want to address the quoted above. To me, that's big part of the continuation of the troubles. It's not just that moving on up "to the deluxe apartment in the sky" is exponentially hard, but there's little pride among people who are left behind for those who moved on up by means other than the jump shot or selling crack. The unspoken cultural guilt is a heavy burden that's levied on the people who rise up and out. It's the opposite reaction to every other minority/immigrant community that started at the bottom and then rose up. People who left the slums were revered and used as examples for children. Perhaps Black History month should feature the anonymous teachers, doctors and accountants who simply strive to lead an ordinary middle class life. Edited June 11, 2018 by GG oops 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BringBackOrton Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 2 minutes ago, GG said: Thanks for adding to the story you started a few years back. But I want to address the quoted above. To me, that's big part of the continuation of the troubles. It's not just that moving up "to the high rise apartment in the sky" is exponentially hard, but there's little pride among people who are left behind for those who moved on up by means other than the jump shot or selling crack. The unspoken cultural guilt is a heavy burden that's levied on the people who rise up and out. It's the opposite reaction to every other minority/immigrant community that started at the bottom and then rose up. People who left the slums were revered and used as examples for children. Perhaps Black History month should feature the anonymous teachers, doctors and accountants who simply strive to lead an ordinary middle class life. Yep. Everybody can't be Lebron or Jay-Z. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keepthefaith Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 42 minutes ago, BringBackOrton said: Yep. Everybody can't be Lebron or Jay-Z. A black acqauintence of mine does some community work in some of the majority black neighborhoods in the city of Chicago. He told me that his organization a few years ago surveyed a few hundred high school boys and that over 80% answered a career goal question that they want to be a pro athlete. He said of course that's not possible and that the black community in these areas mostly sees black celebrities as successful and not enough examples of success in more attainable professions. As others have already pointed out, surroundings and support really matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 (edited) 8 hours ago, Juror#8 said: I tend to agree with your mom and I know my mom would too. But man I saw some **** that people just shouldn’t be have to deal with. What sucked was that some parents just didn’t care and gave up on themselves and, by extension, on their kids. My mom would pick my friend Yaru up for school and he would ride with us. His mom was always strung out. Always. Like think Felicia from “Friday” but more emaciated. My mom would give him money for lunch. Anyway, it’s tough to think people with that many strikes against them should win in life without a significant infusion of care from somewhere. I can understand that POV. Edit: if if you were referencing the real Ricky Ross, freeway rick, I’ve often wondered if a guy like him had applied his ambition and intelligence to a legitimate business, what an example he could have been to his community. Edited June 11, 2018 by joesixpack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeviF Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 22 hours ago, Juror#8 said: But spend a day down in West Baltimore schools or in Southeast dc or any hood near you and I guarantee you won’t be talking that theoretical ****. But it’s easy to opine in a vacuum. I get it. Just so long as you realize that it’s incomplete analysis, then I guess it don’t make me no kinda nevermind. Post more, mother!@#$er. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TakeYouToTasker Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 @Juror#8 Our backgrounds are more similar than you might imagine. My family was plunged into poverty some time right around my first birthday. My mother grew up homeless in Las Vegas. The oldest daughter of alcoholics, my maternal grandfather a gambling addict who had his paycheck spent on the blackjack tables before he bought a loaf of bread. They lived in a cave he dug out in the hidden side of an underpass. They upgraded to a small camping trailer after a years time. My father worked as a carpenter when he got back from Viet Nam (a time which left him with deep mental and emotional scars he's never recovered from), until the trussing of a house fell on him breaking his back. The construction company held out on paying him restitution and tied him up in a legal battle he couldn't afford, until he finally settled for far less than was even required to pay his medical bills because his family was starving. My mother supported us for the next 4 years on tips working in a ****ty dinner while he slowly nursed himself back to health. We lived in the slums in West Vegas. I didn't know it until I as older, but my mother made most of my clothes herself because my parents couldn't afford them. Like you, I received second hand books and homemade wooden blocks for Christmas. There were other Christmas' where I went without. I was the first member of my family to go to college. My work ethic and my inability to view myself as a victim are what allowed me to climb out and break the cycle. They are, in retrospect, better than any Christmas present I ever could have received. I know what a woat is. I know what it's like to go hungry. It's one of the reasons I believe so strongly in the philosophy I espouse. The truth is that I don't expect most people born into situations like yours, or mine, to pull themselves out. And for those who do, they'll be replaced by some other poor bastards who fall into poverty. It's not a problem that can ever be solved for the masses by someone else. It's a problem that can only be solved for the individual by the individual themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B-Man Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 How poisonous politics and social media managed to even ruin sports by Jazz Shaw . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Fischer Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 17 hours ago, 3rdnlng said: You are being disingenuous. From reading your prior posts it would appear that you have a lot of practice though. You are not a serious person. !@#$ off. Sorry to disturb your safe, insular club. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3rdnlng Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 3 minutes ago, Max Fischer said: Sorry to disturb your safe, insular club by being disingenuous. Fixed it for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Fischer Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 Just now, 3rdnlng said: Fixed it for you. Are you still hurt? Sorry, Dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frostbitmic Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 What's ruining football is the dynasty known as the new england patriots. What's ruining the other sports is that they're boring and not violent enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
row_33 Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 Hasn't been football for decades now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 43 minutes ago, Max Fischer said: Sorry to disturb your safe, insular club. You need to bring much more substance to the table to disturb anyone here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Fischer Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 1 hour ago, DC Tom said: You need to bring much more substance to the table to disturb anyone here. Though you keep responding . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 2 minutes ago, Max Fischer said: Though you keep responding . . . You keep needing to be reminded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Fischer Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 Just now, DC Tom said: You keep needing to be reminded. It wasn't very memorable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Tom Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 1 minute ago, Max Fischer said: It wasn't very memorable. Maybe you should try thinking about it, rather than feeling about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
\GoBillsInDallas/ Posted June 13, 2018 Share Posted June 13, 2018 Even more fun: http://www.ctpost.com/sports/article/Class-M-Track-Hillhouse-girls-win-title-12952479.php http://www.ctpost.com/highschool/article/Jeff-Jacobs-No-easy-answers-when-it-comes-to-12967306.php Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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