26CornerBlitz Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 There go his chances of getting the job on a permanent basis.
White Linen Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 Why does he get put on admin. leave if there's no evidence? I hate when this happens. 2
ndirish1978 Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 2 minutes ago, mead107 said: Did he beat her? No, she says he was emotionally and verbally abusive and regularly tracked her and their pets? The complaint was withdrawn in court. Seems a bit like they are freaking out over there because of the Richardson thing.
mead107 Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 1 minute ago, ndirish1978 said: No, she says he was emotionally and verbally abusive and regularly tracked her and their pets? The complaint was withdrawn in court. Seems a bit like they are freaking out over there because of the Richardson thing. Why the pets?
BuffaloRush Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 This sounds like total BS. Definitely more of a personal issue than a reason to effect his employment but I’ll wait for the details. Could be a lot more to it
ndirish1978 Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 1 minute ago, mead107 said: Why the pets? I have no idea, that's what the article said. Once I read that she lost me. When you combine that with recent requests to raise her alimony it paints her in a pretty crappy light.
Koko78 Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 12 minutes ago, mead107 said: Why the pets? You never know if they're out screwing the neighbor's dog. 5
Saxum Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 As often as happens in this case complaint withdrawn and restraining order denied. A cop I know told me this tends to happen since once restraining order is denied or pull the complainer, justified or not, feels withdrawing complaint will make person "safer".
JimKellyTryouts Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 Why tf they even fired Gettleman remains a mystery
Mango Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 31 minutes ago, BuffaloRush said: This sounds like total BS. Definitely more of a personal issue than a reason to effect his employment but I’ll wait for the details. Could be a lot more to it He signed a contract that includes the leagues personal conduct policy. He also isn't selling anti-virus in an office. The NFL is a very public choice of employment, where losing your job for personal conduct is more than justified. Some parts might be some paranoia. But they are also VERY common symptoms for women who were in abusive relationships prior. If I had to put money on it, Hurney was probably abusive in the past while married. His actions of stalking are common of abusers. And continued paranoia about the abuser is incredibly common in their victims. Maybe he is/maybe he isn't currently stalking or harassing her. What is highly likely is, he is paying the piper for past behavior. Not out of her need to get back at him, but very real psychological repercussions of his past actions. Read up on abusive relationships. This sort of behavior is more common than you are giving it credit for. 7 minutes ago, Limeaid said: As often as happens in this case complaint withdrawn and restraining order denied. A cop I know told me this tends to happen since once restraining order is denied or pull the complainer, justified or not, feels withdrawing complaint will make person "safer". ^^^THIS^^^ Also the role of the victim in these situations is a very complicated mental state. 1
Ed_Formerly_of_Roch Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 44 minutes ago, mead107 said: Why the pets? Ever watch the movie "Everything you ant to know about sex, but were afraid to ask" Just sayin! 1
#34fan Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 Of Course, because nobody's ex-wife ever lied about anything... -Ever. 4
aristocrat Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 So she filed for more alimony in December and now this. Ok
Big Turk Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 2 hours ago, White Linen said: Why does he get put on admin. leave if there's no evidence? I hate when this happens. So now you can simply make anyone unemployable of you are a woman by making up a bunch of BS that has no basis in reality? When are men going to stand up and say enough is enough and put them back in their place? No different than when a woman you are dating does something disrespectful and you don't put her in her place(verbally). She just does it again and keeps going further and further and further. This is the current state of things...too many beta dudes who let women walk all over them in their relationships and allow it when running the government. 3
Mango Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 1 hour ago, matter2003 said: So now you can simply make anyone unemployable of you are a woman by making up a bunch of BS that has no basis in reality? When are men going to stand up and say enough is enough and put them back in their place? No different than when a woman you are dating does something disrespectful and you don't put her in her place(verbally). She just does it again and keeps going further and further and further. This is the current state of things...too many beta dudes who let women walk all over them in their relationships and allow it when running the government. Whelp...that escalated quickly. I don’t know what happened to you as a kid, but I’m sorry it happened, and it’s ok to feel hurt by it. 3 1
Big Turk Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 2 minutes ago, Mango said: Whelp...that escalated quickly. I don’t know what happened to you as a kid, but I’m sorry it happened, and it’s ok to feel hurt by it. Nothing happened to me as a kid, I just realized that people in general and women especially, respect you when you stand up for yourself and don't put up with BS. Try it sometime. I'm sure the beta white knight inside you would be kicking and screaming because you believe that allowing yourself to be treated like a doormat and being "nice" will lead you to the land of milk and honey, but you might find that you won't get the LJBF speech after the first or second date all the time...small victories my friend...small victories... 3
Mango Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 8 minutes ago, matter2003 said: Nothing happened to me as a kid, I just realized that people in general and women especially, respect you when you stand up for yourself and don't put up with BS. Try it sometime. I'm sure the beta white knight inside you would be kicking and screaming because you believe that allowing yourself to be treated like a doormat and being "nice" will lead you to the land of milk and honey, but you might find that you won't get the LJBF speech after the first or second date all the time...small victories my friend...small victories... I don’t want to hijack the thread, so I won’t go back and forth on this after this post. I don’t put people in their place, I expect respect from people in my life, and don’t surround myself with people who I feel disrespected by. If I have to parent you in being a reasonable human being, there is no place for you. It’s not my job to put you in you’re place. It’s my fault for allowing myself to be aroind continuous disrespect. You can control the people in your life closest to you. If you keep surrounding yourself with disrespect, you might not be as alpha as you think you are. I also don’t think being an A-hole is in any way gender specific. What do I know? Just some beta on the inter webs. ???♂️ 4 1 1
Rob's House Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 Yet another example of the NFL failing to heed the advice of Lincoln Osiris. I get the need to protect their image since the media determined it's now the employer's role to act as the morality police over the employees private affairs, but suspending a guy because his ex wife says he's mean and controlling is going full retard.
MJS Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 2 hours ago, matter2003 said: So now you can simply make anyone unemployable of you are a woman by making up a bunch of BS that has no basis in reality? When are men going to stand up and say enough is enough and put them back in their place? No different than when a woman you are dating does something disrespectful and you don't put her in her place(verbally). She just does it again and keeps going further and further and further. This is the current state of things...too many beta dudes who let women walk all over them in their relationships and allow it when running the government. Per her in her place? I sure hope you mean as your absolute equal. But I doubt that. Sounds like you are a sexist. 3
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