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2 hours ago, DaBillsFanSince1973 said:

now if he stuck his tongue in his mouth, that could be a problem.

 

He reserves that for when Jack is wearing his Welker jersey.

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Kissing your 11 year old child on the lips is one thing... I wouldn't do it but hey whatever. 

 

But for your kid to do it, and you to tell them that it was only a peck and demand a better one is ****ed up and disturbing. That is not love but mental illness. 

 

Add in the pictures of Brady straight up making out with his dad on the football field and you get one weird a** dude. 

 

I am glad I didn't get raised to make out with family members, I feel bad for the kid really, he just wanted to check his fantasy football scores. 

 

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Whatever. Not my personal choice, but that's just me. I have two kids and anytime they see me kiss my wife on the lips they beg for me to kiss them on the lips and try to get me to do it (they are 4 and 2 years old). They try to wrestle me and kiss me on the lips. It's a game we play and funny, but for me I would never do that because it is weird for me.

 

But lots of families are different. I think showing affection, however it is, is better than the opposite.

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1 hour ago, MJS said:

Whatever. Not my personal choice, but that's just me. I have two kids and anytime they see me kiss my wife on the lips they beg for me to kiss them on the lips and try to get me to do it (they are 4 and 2 years old). They try to wrestle me and kiss me on the lips. It's a game we play and funny, but for me I would never do that because it is weird for me.

 

But lots of families are different. I think showing affection, however it is, is better than the opposite.

Big difference between 2/4 and 11

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31 minutes ago, Process said:

Big difference between 2/4 and 11

Basically you covered everything I would have said. I agree with you completely. Making your kid kiss you on the lips at 11 years old while your getting a massage is not normal in my book. 

 

I think people forget that it probably made that kid feel ultra uncomfortable that's why he just tried to get away with a peck on the cheek. 

 

I myself don't have kids but if I did I wouldn't kiss them on the lips at any age. That is just me because I like to kiss hot lady's on the lips and that's the only way I know how to kiss on the lips.

 

A kiss on the cheek or forehead is as far as I would go and at 11 I'm fine with a high 5, a hug or a verbal expression of family love. Fast forward 10 years later and I bet that kid has some issues. 

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36 minutes ago, Process said:

Big difference between 2/4 and 11

 

Seems to be just a cultural thing to me. People aren't comfortable with it because they have been brought up that way. There is no reason a kiss has to mean anything weird.

 

I'm not comfortable with it, and I understand that it is because I was raised that way and society has created certain norms.

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6 hours ago, Johnny Hammersticks said:

Funny timing of this thread.  My son just turned 8 on 12/28.  Up until about 2 weeks ago, I always gave him a hug and a little peck on the lips before he left for school.  Thought nothing of it, really.  I love the kid with all my heart, and it didn’t seem to bother him.

 

Well, about 2 weeks ago I was tucking him into bed and went to give him a kiss and he kinda turned away.  I chuckled and said “what’s wrong, do you feel weird having your dad kiss you on the lips now that you’re older?”  His response was “I don’t know...should I?”  I gave him a kiss on the forehead and haven’t given him a kiss on the lips since.

 

I kissed both my boys on the forehead when they were little. My youngest is 12 and its been several years since I gave him a kiss on the forehead at bed time.  Still gets hugs and has to deal with me telling him i love him. My oldest is 16 and is a 152lb wrestler that can probably kick my ass.  We have been at a handshake and a shoulder bump for a few years now but words are still in play pretty easily.

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