Nervous Guy Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 No we separated very amicably. Don't be a hater, your the only one that suffers. The person your hating has no knowledge of it. since Tom is not around....IT'S YOU'RE, NOT YOUR....as in YOU ARE.
Jauronimo Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 No we separated very amicably. Don't be a hater, your the only one that suffers. The person your hating has no knowledge of it. Yeah, that's one way to go about it, I guess...
boyst Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 My daughter is trying to get me to date......but I just cant do it......it isnt that I want to get back to my ex my financial sitatuion is hanging on by a thread while I am giving everthing i have to put a roof over my grandkids heads......I am putting all the energy I have into them sign up for tinder than pm i got you bro Thanks for the daily reminder to never get married. if only i could pull up youtube at work, i'd get hank williams proclaiming i'll be a bachelor til i die you and i going the distance solo forever. except you gotta start bringing the women around. maybe we can even trade. you seemed to like caitlin. i miss her. boo
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted July 10, 2017 Author Posted July 10, 2017 Thanks for the daily reminder to never get married. This guy gets it.
teef Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 i'm heading on 5 years of marriage, so we still in a good place. that being said, i really respect the people that can keep civil relationships. i can almost guarantee that ours wouldn't be. my wife i'm sure would want the house and keep her general life style, which i wouldn't let happen. fortunately i don't think there would be a problem with our daughter though. my wife is someone who thinks it really important that girls have a strong relationship with their dads. i wouldn't get custody, but i'd see her a lot. god i hope it never comes to this.
ExiledInIllinois Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 (edited) This guy gets it. Take it with grain of salt Levi, it stops and starts with you and your significant other. It takes "two to tango." Going on 25 years married and some here have been going strong even longer. Edited July 10, 2017 by ExiledInIllinois
LeviF Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 if only i could pull up youtube at work, i'd get hank williams proclaiming i'll be a bachelor til i die you and i going the distance solo forever. except you gotta start bringing the women around. maybe we can even trade. you seemed to like caitlin. i miss her. boo I may sign up for tinder again, but that also means having facebook again so maybe not. Haven't really been out a lot lately, time to get back in the saddle I guess. Just haven't been in the mood to try the last six months.
Nervous Guy Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 Take it with grain of salt Levi, it stops and starts with you and your significant other. It takes "two to tango." Going on 25 years married and some here have been going strong even longer. Aye...30 years this coming September....it's been a roller coaster but I can't imagine going through that with anyone else.
eball Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 Tried to treat her best I could was repaid with infidelity If true, how did she manage to take everything? You must have had a crappy divorce lawyer.
Gugny Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 i'm heading on 5 years of marriage, so we still in a good place. that being said, i really respect the people that can keep civil relationships. i can almost guarantee that ours wouldn't be. my wife i'm sure would want the house and keep her general life style, which i wouldn't let happen. fortunately i don't think there would be a problem with our daughter though. my wife is someone who thinks it really important that girls have a strong relationship with their dads. i wouldn't get custody, but i'd see her a lot. god i hope it never comes to this. What happened to all of our Lake George plans??
teef Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 What happened to all of our Lake George plans?? weren't you guys up there on wednesday? we didn't even come in until later on thursday. that place was a blast though.
Gugny Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 weren't you guys up there on wednesday? we didn't even come in until later on thursday. that place was a blast though. My son and I were walking through the Village yesterday. I saw a guy sitting outside, clearly waiting for others ... wearing a McCoy t-shirt and all into his phone. I was gonna walk up and say, "Teef?" just to see if maybe it was you. I didn't. Glad you had a good time!
teef Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 My son and I were walking through the Village yesterday. I saw a guy sitting outside, clearly waiting for others ... wearing a McCoy t-shirt and all into his phone. I was gonna walk up and say, "Teef?" just to see if maybe it was you. I didn't. Glad you had a good time! it wasn't me, but it would have been amazing if he said yes, and you had an awesome time with a complete random. we loved it so much we're going back next year. the place we stayed had a check in time of 4 and a check out time of 10. they make you wait to get it, and hurry you the hell out on checkout day. we stayed and boated for a couple of hours, but we had to peace out far too early.
Bill from NYC Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 I mean viscerally despise her? Just curious about the divorced dudes' feelings on this topic. Joe, I am an expert on this topic both personally and professionally. 1) Hating her will be harmful to you both physically and mentally. 2) She probably doesn't care at all whether or not you are sitting around angrily focusing on her. 3) It DOES get better. 4) Keep busy. Read, go to church, go for long walks. Good luck Bro and believe me, things will improve sooner than you think. If true, how did she manage to take everything? You must have had a crappy divorce lawyer. Judges don't care at all who cheats, as long as you don't engage in sex in front of the kids. Besides, how many cases do you think are actually heard by a judge. Divorce is one of the worst things on earth. I liken it to the death of an immediate family member but as I told Joe above, it gets better.
boyst Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 I may sign up for tinder again, but that also means having facebook again so maybe not. Haven't really been out a lot lately, time to get back in the saddle I guess. Just haven't been in the mood to try the last six months. i'm making a new fake tinder profile soon to lower my age to 29. i've asked a lot of opinions and could pass for 29
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted July 10, 2017 Author Posted July 10, 2017 (edited) If true, how did she manage to take everything? You must have had a crappy divorce lawyer. House was upside down, walked away from that. Got half her pension. she got primary custody, and child support (which is onerous). I'll probably pay more in support than i get from the pension. So a net loss. PA does support by formula, so there's no way of getting around it, no matter how good the lawyer. Edited July 10, 2017 by joesixpack
Saxum Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 I just want to be left alone. She took everything, and can't seem to stop wanting to try and squeeze more blood from the stone. Tell her you have no blood like a vampire.
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted July 10, 2017 Author Posted July 10, 2017 Tell her you have no blood like a vampire.
Pine Barrens Mafia Posted July 10, 2017 Author Posted July 10, 2017 I think you mean "no @#$" no being the key word there
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