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First thing you have to figure out is what you want out of the relationship. Then the rest is a lot easier to figure out.

 

I wouldn't worry too much about the fact that she's testing the waters before making a leap; that's pretty standard for women looking to get out of a relationship. I'd be more concerned about the guy's proclivity for violence. But it's not like you're breaking up a family or even a happy couple. If she's already planning to bolt for another guy, why shouldn't it be you?

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First thing you have to figure out is what you want out of the relationship. Then the rest is a lot easier to figure out.

I wouldn't worry too much about the fact that she's testing the waters before making a leap; that's pretty standard for women looking to get out of a relationship. I'd be more concerned about the guy's proclivity for violence. But it's not like you're breaking up a family or even a happy couple. If she's already planning to bolt for another guy, why shouldn't it be you?

Early bird gets the worm.

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So

 

An update...

 

Basically I told her that so long as she's still married and not at LEAST separated, I'm not going any farther with her. Not because I don't want to, but rather because I don't want to be used for side entertainment. She understood totally.

 

Back to the solo existence. =/

 

 

Good for you...now go find some young girl that hates her father (j/k).

Early bird gets the worm.

 

But the second mouse gets the cheese.

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So

 

An update...

 

Basically I told her that so long as she's still married and not at LEAST separated, I'm not going any farther with her. Not because I don't want to, but rather because I don't want to be used for side entertainment. She understood totally.

 

Back to the solo existence. =/

 

You did the right thing

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