Beerball Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 (and if she really wants to keep you around, suggest a threesome with the roomate) Pics required prior to making this suggestion. One pic of the roommates in a passionate embrace should give us ample evidence.
SageAgainstTheMachine Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 "Look, I'm not going to be buddies with you. We were in too deep. And I realize you need to experiment with other boyfriends. Get to it, then give me a call when you decide you need a manfriend. 'Til then, sugartits." ...is what I would say.
MarkAF43 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 "Look, I'm not going to be buddies with you. We were in too deep. And I realize you need to experiment with other boyfriends. Get to it, then give me a call when you decide you need a manfriend. 'Til then, sugartits." ...is what I would say. I have to agree..... the two of you had a great thing going, but something in her changed that, don't do the half in half out. i know she's young, but if she is going to come around, she will. Don't let yourself stay too emotionally invested in this because in the long run if you don't get her for the next 50 years it'll hurt that much more.
Captain Hindsight Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 She heard you have a new car, that's why she called. Wait, what?! You're talking with the roomate also? Why? (and if she really wants to keep you around, suggest a threesome with the roomate) The roomie called me to see how I was doing. Were pretty good friends but we agreed not to let the ex know we talked. Im trying to just move past this whole thing. I agree with what everyone has been saying that this is likely only to get me hurt more talking to her so our conversations have been few and far between since last friday or whenever that was. My thinking now is if I still feel this way about her in a year and were both single I'll give her a call, but I cant put too much stock in it. I have to grow up and live my life and she has to do the same. I know I did everything I could and little whispers ive heard from her friends and roommate tell me that they all think shes making a big mistake (I tend to agree but im a bit biased). I guess well see what happens.
DC Tom Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 The roomie called me to see how I was doing. Were pretty good friends but we agreed not to let the ex know we talked. Im trying to just move past this whole thing. I agree with what everyone has been saying that this is likely only to get me hurt more talking to her so our conversations have been few and far between since last friday or whenever that was. She called you? Tap that, you dumbass.
Captain Hindsight Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 She called you? Tap that, you dumbass. Shes got a boyfriend. Although he is kind of a weirdo. She does have a lot of personality tho if you know what I mean
DC Tom Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Shes got a boyfriend. Doesn't matter. She does have a lot of personality tho if you know what I mean Usually it means they give great head.
Juror#8 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 (edited) PIIHB. If she's cool with it, at least you've confirmed that she's a keeper. Edited September 4, 2012 by Juror#8
CosmicBills Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Doesn't matter. Usually it means they give great head. Church.
John Adams Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Shes got a boyfriend. So did your girlfriend when she dumped you for the shadow man that we all know is out there.
KD in CA Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Shes got a boyfriend. Even more reason to nail her. You won't have to feel like you need to follow up and ask her out and the sex will be hot cause she'll be all excited by cheating on him.
Doc Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Usually it means they give great head. I thought it meant they're ugly. Although the two aren't mutually exclusive.
DC Tom Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 I thought it meant they're ugly. No, fat. Which usually means they give great head...
kegtapr Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 No, fat. Which usually means they give great head... Fat, ugly....they all look the same when the light goes off.
SageAgainstTheMachine Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Fat, ugly....they all look the same when the light goes off. Eventually you have to turn the light on. Sometime later, you catch a glimpse in the mirror.
drinkTHEkoolaid Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Eventually you have to turn the light on. Sometime later, you catch a glimpse in the mirror. Just keep drinking till you blackout
kegtapr Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Eventually you have to turn the light on. Sometime later, you catch a glimpse in the mirror. Not if you're doing it right. Out the door before you sober up and the sun comes up.
section122 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Eventually you have to turn the light on. Sometime later, you catch a glimpse in the mirror. as long as the top of her head is cute it doesn't matter.
Captain Hindsight Posted September 20, 2012 Author Posted September 20, 2012 Just an update for you guys Weve been talking a bit. Nothing really ground breaking. I told her how much I missed her and she said she needed this and needed space ect. So I backed off for a few days. She sent me a text and we talked briefly then i sent her one a few days later talked briefly. I talked to her roommate the other night and explained to her that i was worried about my ex forgetting me and that I wanted this to work ect. She told me that she thinks (based on what shes heard and seen) that she has every intention of staying in touch with me and seeing where we are in a while. The roommate thinks that for now this is temporary and if I want this to work, I should just be patient. Today I got to work and we had no power so I texted my ex and asked what i should do with my new found day off and we talked a bit. I said something like "Ok well I know your busy I wont keep bugging you with my boredom" She responded "Captain Hindsight, I hate when you do that... you never bug me. I'd tell you if I couldnt talk to you cause i was busy. Stop thinking that bc we arent dating youve all of a sudden become the most annoying person in the world to me. Because you arent. Youre still a very close friend to and if your bored I want you to be able to text me." I said i was sorry and I was just trying to respect her space. She said "I know you are and i really do appreciate that. But if your gonna talk to me, then talk to me. When you do that it makes me feel bad like you think im ignoring you or something and Im not." I said" I know you not ignoring me, like i said im just trying to respect your space and let you live, but i'll remember that." We talked after that a bit just like we had a month before and then the conversation fizzled. And here I am. I know my gift is in hindsight and that I may be setting myself up for failure but i decided that I'm willing to wait for her to figure things out and hopefully we can get back together when I'm closer and this is just a footnote in our relationship. Things shes said and her roommate has said suggest this could work. I havent doubted my feelings for her, ever. Since we met, ive known. I cant explain it, i dont understand it, but I know. I'll fight for it, wait for it, whatever it takes. But i know. I know you guys give it to me straight. Am I being crazy? Or am I right to be fight for what I am sure is my future wife?
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