nuklz2594 Posted March 27, 2010 Share Posted March 27, 2010 my wife of 22 years has left with her boyfriend and moved to alabama i am a 3 time war vet and disabled my teen daughter lives with me all credit cars are done not what Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uticaclub Posted March 27, 2010 Share Posted March 27, 2010 and your a bills fan? man thats rough, i really wish i could help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stl Bills Posted March 27, 2010 Share Posted March 27, 2010 my wife of 22 years has left with her boyfriend and moved to alabamai am a 3 time war vet and disabled my teen daughter lives with me all credit cars are done not what Sorry to hear that nuklz.....don't know if it helps at all but In my short time I've been through some rough years and I've learned that if you just keep on keeping on through the hard times you'll find your light at the end of the tunnel. Never give up hope.....it can be a powerful thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuklz2594 Posted March 28, 2010 Author Share Posted March 28, 2010 thanx will suck it up and drive on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rackemrack Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 you need a drink bro... keep your head held high, it'll get better. GO BILLS!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharper802 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 If she was dumb enough to move to Alabama then it shouldn't be a big loss. Go out and have non-marital sex. You will instantly feel better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RalphW Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 tough luck bro, it will get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. ChumChums Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 If she was dumb enough to move to Alabama then it shouldn't be a big loss. Go out and have non-marital sex. You will instantly feel better! This. Get back on the prowl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebug Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Be grateful that you have your daughter and move forward together. Family first, all else will be ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulMan Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Nukles, Never give up. Our church will be prayin for you in the am. Thank you for your service to our country. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
....lybob Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Sue the wife for child support make sure you are getting every veteran benefit you are entitled to suck up your pride and get all benefits for low income or disabled you are entitled to join a church make a list of every skill you have make a list of everything you'd be willing to sell Good luck and remember you are not alone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkc Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 she is in alabama and you get to date again . we call that a win win situation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 thanxwill suck it up and drive on You've got a responsibility to your daughter and nothing else matters. Stay strong brother and do the right thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuklz2594 Posted March 28, 2010 Author Share Posted March 28, 2010 we are taking it one day at a time. thanks for comments and encouragement Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roco22 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 my wife of 22 years has left with her boyfriend and moved to alabamai am a 3 time war vet and disabled my teen daughter lives with me all credit cars are done not what Hey brother ive been divorced for 4 years now and the only thing that got me through it was my daughter who is 10 years old now... i loved my wife more than anything and she broke my heart but i got through it... it gets better... thanks for your service and god bless... go bills... thank god that your not in alabama may she rot down there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwight in philly Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 my wife of 22 years has left with her boyfriend and moved to alabamai am a 3 time war vet and disabled my teen daughter lives with me all credit cars are done not what i know it is easier said than done, but one day at a time.. thank god you do have your daughter. may i join others and, say, thanks for your service to the country. you guys are the real heros. your story certainly puts in perspective what truly is important in life. i predict you will come out of this stronger than ever, and life will be grand.. my prayers are with you.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bowery4 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Asking for help was a good first step, good job. These things take time and effort just like the Bills rebuilding will. I am praying for you and your girl. Don't lose patiance things change and will get better. It takes your own will to get through it but you can. My wife left me once and I rebounded, at least you have the best thing produced from the relationship. Peace and love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobillsinytown Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 my wife of 22 years has left with her boyfriend and moved to alabamai am a 3 time war vet and disabled my teen daughter lives with me all credit cars are done not what ....and I thought I was having a bad week! Let the wife go. She doesn't deserve you. Like other poeple have posted, make sure you get everything the government owes you. The credit cards will be a blessing once you finally get rid of them. Hang in there, and remember there are plenty of people who deeply respect you for your service. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bob in STL Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Sue the wife for child supportmake sure you are getting every veteran benefit you are entitled to suck up your pride and get all benefits for low income or disabled you are entitled to join a church make a list of every skill you have make a list of everything you'd be willing to sell Good luck and remember you are not alone Good list to start with., let me expand it a bit. Fight for your legal rights when it comes to support. This is your right. You have a daughter, show her how to overcome adversity by your example, not by words. Don't bad mouth the EX, even though she deserves it. You have an opportunity somewhere within this painful place so don't waste your energy on that stuff. Broaden your network ... church, work, volunteer, kids school, verterans groups, ... there are lots of places to do this. A bigger better network will open opportunities for work and will help you to meet the right kind of people. Let your friends and family help if they are available to do so. Then do things to help them. Don't fall for the get drunk and have sex with lots of women stuff. That is temporary relief. Not the big picture solution. Excerise (if you can) and eat right ... you can reduce stress with exercise, even if it's walking, stretching, etc. Make it part of your daily routine and it will help you feel better. Not sure about your financial status but avoid credit. Simplify. Everyday at the end of the day, think of three things that made you happy. Keep it simple. Sounds silly I know but you will quickly see that there are many good things to keep you going forward. Simple things that we take for granted. You will get through it if that is your focus. Important to understand through it means you will not stay in the painful place. You will meet someone better if that is your focus In asking for help, you just started the process. Better days await you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobillsinytown Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 "Everyday at the end of the day, think of three things that made you happy. Keep it simple. Sounds silly I know but you will quickly see that there are many good things to keep you going forward. Simple things that we take for granted. You will get through it if that is your focus. Important to understand through it means you will not stay in the painful place. You will meet someone better if that is your focus. " Awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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