I guess my point is that as outsiders, we really dont know what the true deal is. Unfortunately we are left to speculate based on the morsels fed to us by the media and try to piece everything together to come to a conclusion about the true events.
Personally, I feel that EM was wronged, but I wouldnt say that I am 100% sure about it because again I dont have access to all the facts. What makes this whole thing suspicious is the fact that throughout his tenure, EM has been a virtual model citizen (as far as being a team player, excluding the spitting and girlfriend slapping incidents ). He has put up with the transitions, the losing seasons, took a lesser salary years ago, and restructured last year for the good of the team. And now this incident happens.
Is he frustrated about his current role and about the season - most likely. Did he blow his cool on Sunday - probably. Did it have to come down to MM suspending him - no, not with what Eric has done for the team. Things could have been handled discreetly and promptly.
Perhaps EM didnt want to pursue this (i.e. appeal) because at this stage, he feels like he'll swallow this bitter medicine, justified or not, knowing full well he will not be with the team next year, and he'll just move on.
One thing to note - right after the game, EM made it a point to state that he did not want to be a distraction, did not want this to be a "T.O." situation. By accepting the 1 game suspension, isnt that fullfilling that mission? And lets face it, 93k is just a drop in the bucket for a guy like him.