No, you really shouldn't get a say as to how the company builds its infrastructure and operates it's system unless you are a large shareholder. The company's first responsibility is making money for the shareholders, not to provide the service you like best.
Our taxes fund tons of stuff that we have absolutely no say in.
You already live with all sorts of content regulation. What makes the internet so special?
My cable company won't give me the porn channels. They limited my ability to get them by charging a hefty premium. Heck, other companies carry some channels that my provider doesn't carry at all. That sure seems to limit my ability to choose exactly what I want to watch. There isn't even a premium I can pay to get those channels.
Lots of things are regulated, and one can only wonder what the country would be like if they hadn't been regulated to the extent that they are. Perhaps the only thing regulation really does is tighten the service options so that there isn't room in the market for another competitor? If everyone has to provide pretty much the exact same service, what incentive would investors have to financially back me so that I could start up a competitive business to do the exact same thing that's already being done?