The roomie called me to see how I was doing. Were pretty good friends but we agreed not to let the ex know we talked. Im trying to just move past this whole thing. I agree with what everyone has been saying that this is likely only to get me hurt more talking to her so our conversations have been few and far between since last friday or whenever that was.
My thinking now is if I still feel this way about her in a year and were both single I'll give her a call, but I cant put too much stock in it. I have to grow up and live my life and she has to do the same. I know I did everything I could and little whispers ive heard from her friends and roommate tell me that they all think shes making a big mistake (I tend to agree but im a bit biased). I guess well see what happens.