The bolded has concerned me as well. I would do anything for this person, but admittedly right now I am busy with work and my own life in general. Its hard for to respond to every text/cry for help. Not because I don't want, I just cant.
I'm being supportive as much as I can but honestly right now its a little draining. I dont want her to feel abandoned so I just grit my teeth and keep going, but its getting difficult
I've told them about my own struggles and how cognitive therapy helped me (and meds to an extent) but she is resistant. Her family (in my unprofessional opinion) could all use this. They all struggle with anxiety and dealing with unknowns, making decisions ect. But they still see the stigma of going to a shrink.