The first time I met my future father in law to be, no wedding plans at the time, he takes me to this bar in the mountains, we got **** faced, he claimed I insulted him. He ditched me at the bar, I had no f-in clue where I was, it was New Years Eve, I went walking around the mountain cabins knocking on doors asking if they knew where my girlfriends family cabin was. It took like 5 hours to find the cabin. He never did like me. We have been married for 31 years now.