1) Wife was from San Diego and we had better job opportunity in San Diego and LA
2) San Diego
3) My new home in San Diego is very nice but obcenely expensive. I am considering buying a $ 1,200,000 fixer upper in La Jolla.
4) I would consider moving back after my kids go to college.
5) I have no idea how to fix the problems. To much government. But the real problem is too attract new industry and business to Buffalo. Make incentive deals to attract companies. Free land, no taxes for 5 years, etc.