I don't have an issue with you.
It can and certainly is. Once you have kids it makes a huge difference. Once the kid gets to the crawling stage, there is no way to smoke safely. Sure, you can lock the door, who is there with the kid? Take turns? Sorta boring. We fell out of the habit pretty much except on our weekends. Then when he was outside or at school (bartender and cocktail) we might partake. Since our divorce, I get a little more free time. There is no doubt though that kids change things, at least for us.