Exactly. Notice that the Lynch story, after he smashes his cell phone, Cutler actually listened? I used to have the same issue with some of the Asperger children. They wouldn't listen to a word you said because they'd be so focused on their phone, Game Boy, etc. Take it away and they'd focus right on you.
Honestly, I think he has some sort of disorder. He's not openly hostile towards people, just very insular. Does anyone have any "non-media" related stories about Cutler? Like punching people out at bars, screaming at fans, etc? And Josh McDaniels is an idiot so his opinion doesn't count.