By the same token, Hamas being elected through a popular legitimate vote is going to eventually force them into other, less viloent courses of action if they have any expectation of any other government (save Iran) taking them seriously.
And yes, pragmatist. I harbor no illusions that we will spread peace, brotherhood and cable TV throughout the galaxy. My only foreign policy and security concerns involve what is in the best interest for the USA, and our own citizens. If that means teaching everyone somewhere to sing Kumbaya in 3 part harmony, fine. That's great and I'd love to see it. But, if it means multiple air strikes and a naval blockade, that's fine too.