I think seeing a famous sports guy retire is one of Denis Leary's reasons that you are allowed to cry.
"And it's very difficult, as a guy, to learn how to cry. You know? It's one of those very tough things. The only time we like to cry is like when a famous sports guy retires, you know? We get one tear, right here it kinda wells up. That's teh only time it's okay. Even your friends go, "Hey, it's just a guy retiring. It's not a movie or anything, he's okay. He's not wearing a dress or a bra, he's fine. It's just a sports guy." You know, that's a genetic thing. I think that's so deep in men--in the DNA--that crying thing. Because we know. We know, even at moments when we're supposed to cry, we just can't bring it out of ourselves, can we? We're just kinda like, (uncertain)"I'm gonna cry . . . (determined) Goddammit, I can't cry, my balls are just too goddamn big, I guess." You know? It's very difficult."