Let me be the first to say, that this is one of the most idiotic lines of bull that I have ever read or heard. We are all responsible for choosing our sexual behavior, even if we have certain tendencies. I am certain I was born with the desire to have sex with multiple women, and it still resides in me. I have chosen to commit myself to a monogamous union with my wife. I was born one way, and chose a higher road. I also know several people who chose to live "in the life" for a short period of time and then reversed the course.
Sorry for the brief hijack, I just couldn't let it go by. If you are looking for my "I was just grumpy" apology, don't hold your breath!
If this story were substantiated, the player should be dealt with. Name the name, or don't write the story.