The only point I am trying to make is that it all about the little things and making them feel special. Guys come here and complain that they spent all this money on a girl and then she dumped them. Chicks don't care about that stuff as much as the little stuff. They want romantic crap they can brag to their friends about. Any dope can take their significant other to a $200 dinner, or buy them jewelry. Whoopie. Try writing out their birthday cards instead of just signing the store bought one, tell them they look nice when they don't expect it, send flowers to their work for no reason. It is really quite simple. If you do the little stuff, you never have to worry about being whipped because your leash is 10 times longer than the normal guy.