I second the Aruba advice, especially if budget is a concern. I have been to 2 all inclusive trips, Sandals Duns River Falls in Jamaica and a place called the Tamarijn in Aruba http://www.tamarijnaruba.com/index.php The Sandals Resort was my Honeymoon back in '97 and was a great time, but it cost at least double what Aruba did. (it was definitely a more upscale Resort) Jamaica did not feel very safe when you went off property but Aruba definitely was. We went to Aruba before we had kids but my wife and I agreed that it would be the perfect place to go with kids who were in their early teens or so because there seemed to be a lot for them to do. Feel free to pm me if you want more detailed descriptions.