Questions/thoughts on networking: What exactly are the specific steps towards somebody you never met but went to your school helping you find a job?
I went to school in Rochester and moved to Philly, so the potential contacts were pretty limited. But I remember emailing a couple people with an introductory "Hi [insert city transition small-talk], how did you get started, blah blah". Even when I got thoughtless 1-2 sentence replies I would thank them for their time or whatever....
A few years later after landing where I wanted to be, I'm now the guy getting these intro emails that say "I just graduated, [please give me a job]", etc. Since I remember what it was like to be them, I want to help and my replies are about twice as long as their original correspondence.
But I don't hear back from them. Are they expecting something along the lines of "Come to my office and I will hire you"?
The proper play is to say "Thanks, I'd like to do lunch sometime and discuss ___ when you're available", correct?