Michael, Beaxsox, and I pray for you. I'm sure you don't accept that, but we do.
*That*, my ice cold friend, is what sets us apart.
And Catholicism doesn't rule out judging people: that admonishment you quote is more in the vein that you shouldn't judge others until you have fully judged yourself. Judging people is important. I need to decide who is evil, and who is not, lest my children fall in league with bad influences. Judging is a natural part of life. So please, don't take that out of context, brother.