In High School and College I worked summers in a large graveyard on Tonawanda. As I wandered around doing the lawncare and other jobs, it always struck me how some spouses would have the death so close together. It was very common, especially for the ones that had been married 40+ years. Sometimes though, you would see the headstones "set up" (the first decedent birth and death dates, the seconds birth date) and the date had not yet been filled in. Sometimes I would wonder if there really is a 113 year old woman living around here, or did she get remarried and this poor guy spends eternity waiting for her....