What a blessing! As a fellow mother of wonderful twin daughters, I would urge you to:
1. Accept ALL the help you are offered - you'll need it ( even if it means having family you don't like around helping
2. Encourage your wife to nurse as long as she is able (it will help the lung development and make a real difference later).
3. Consider giving them individual names. Soundalike names sound cute right now, but researchers advise against it - especially for boy twins.
4. Don't sweat the small stuff - and don't mind the messy house - you'll get so little sleep in the first 2-3 months that you'll wonder how to get through it.
But amazingly, we all do.
5. Get involved with a parents of multiples group - they can pass on such wonderful advice, research and timesaving hints - it can be a lifesaver!
CONGRATULATIONS!!