We actually do not disagree on most issues. I realize that destroying the system is not likely; that was my response to what I thought was dave saying "meh, everybody does it."
I do think you give short shrift to the important objections [ahem] that people have to paying athletes, but some reform is possible. Some sort of universal stipend [same for all players] as part of their financial aid in lieu of a work-study job does make sense. As does the more liberal use of the death penalty for dirty programs, and especially stronger punishments for coaches who skip town one step ahead of probation.
If colleges need to find the money for the stipends, they can take it out of the ridiculous salaries paid to coaches. It frankly disgusts me that football coaches, who are the most authoritarian, all-controlling figures in all of sports, can claim they have no idea about wrongdoing in their programs. They know, and they know they do not want anyone to know that they know. Disgusting.