its his name...what business is it of any of us what to call him....growing up i kind of anguished about what i was gonna be called as an adult...my parents named me Patrick James with every intention of calling me PJ, after my great grand-father...as i was getting into my teens i was concerned that PJ wasn't a grown up name, but i hated Pat, and Patrick is reserved for my Mom when I am in trouble...well here i am less than 6 months from the big 5-0 and I am still PJ and wouldn't have it any other way....