Indeed. I have a chunky 60yo white guy relative that shows up at holidays. He’s a fabulist that tells easily disproven tales meant to make himself seem bigger in life. Nobody can stand being around him.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2024/08/23/emhoff-harris-sex-symbol/
We live in an era where The Second Gentleman, the one that knocked up his nanny, is considered a sex symbol. How is a young guy supposed to compete?