I guess it was more a case of a poorly worded, incomplete thought than trying to suggest that one experience speaks for all others.
I just think that in a lot of these cases that involve a younger male and an older female that there is not really what I would fairly consider a "victim".
Female victim? Absolutely a problem. Double standard? Yep, and I have no problem with that.
I just see the backlash as oftentimes more cultural than it is criminal.
And I'd guess there are actually a fair number of instances where the young fellow didn't feel badly about the experience at all, but then was convinced by external forces that he was actually victimized and as a result made to feel bad about something that he shouldn't necessarily feel all that bad about.