Each coach has their own demeanor dealing with players, some hardass and some empathetic. Neither is right or wrong, it all comes down to results.
Josh is a man playing a mans sport, if he can't handle how his coach talks to him he is in the wrong sport and won't last long. (I know Josh will handle the kick in the ass like a man and be just fine, no safe space required.)
My doubts come in to play when it comes to Daboll and his ability to coach Josh up to his potential. I had high hopes week 1 when he let Josh go no huddle, but then it stopped dead. IMO Josh plays better in an up tempo attack mode, with a sense of urgency. We don't see that from Daboll, infact we ALWAYS wait until the play clock is gone. His play calling as been highly suspect as far as I am concerned. I would love to see Josh get some freedom at the LOS at times.
I hope I am wrong about Daboll being a detriment to our young QB.