If my brother didn’t do it first, I’d beat their a**, but I never said that nor insinuated that. I made a comment that he snickers at those (straight people) who want virtue signal for attention (ie: arguing who is the first blah blah blah), or as you stated “it’s not news”. Some of it comes across as disingenuous or fake if you will. As a gay person, he would be the first to say good for him, and that’s it and move on. He doesn’t subscribe to the LGBT community or anything like that, he just goes on about his daily life. In all honesty, he would think this thread is silly and poke fun at me for even getting involved, but that’s just him.
Not all gay people are alike. He’s not the flamboyant type and doesn’t seek attention nor feel the need say “hey look at me”. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, it’s just not him. Everyone pretty figured out his sexual orientation in his late teens and it was embraced with love and he wasn’t treated any differently.
I should not have commented, I just didn’t understand the back and forth as to the competition between Michael Sam or Carl Nassib and why there needed to be a “qualifier “ attached to them. Like, does it really matter? That's all I was inquiring, but you know message boards go.