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I wasn't sure if I wanted to add to this thread, but since it's still going on, I think I will. First, despite a few bro's with their typical mouth breathing comments I appreciate the compassion and empathy of many who have posted. In the 1980's my first job out of college was working in a residential treatment center for youth, before I ended up going into teaching and school administration. One of the boys in the facility was 12, great kid to work with, but was extremely guarded. He had an issue with soiling his underwear constantly and thus had to be monitored by male and female because it was so prevalent. Can you imagine at that age how shameful and embarrassing this would be? The kids lived in cottages so all the other boys ended up knowing this was happening. He handled it, like it wasn't really happening to him. Of course soiling can be be a sign of sexual abuse, but despite efforts by social workers and counselors on staff, while he was in placement he never so much as opened the door even ever so slightly that any abuse had happened. Well that was the 1980's, he left to return home to the Southern Tier in a small town after a few years. The facility didn't keep in contact with the kids once they left, so their was no update on his progress Well, a few years ago I got a friend request on Facebook from him and he casually updated me on his life. It was good to hear from him and I was pleased that he said he was happily married, has 2 kids and was working a decent job. The messages took a turn when he broke away from his family, was distraught and was aimlessly heading out West in his truck. He ended up sharing what had happened to him when he was a boy at the hands of one of his mother's boyfriends. He shared this by message as I think it was easier for him. He was raped repeatedly for many years by this monster. He was bound, tortured cruelly and humiliated. He had buried this trauma for so many years, like so many do and releasing it let loose with a volcano of emotions that caused him to run from the decent life he was built, because he felt so ashamed, like he was damaged goods. He didn't know whether he wanted to live or die. One thing he shared is that his mother's boyfriend often would force him to give him oral sex and would ***** in his mouth. This often caused him to gag. The man would tell him to go clean up and brush his teeth some of the time. He did. Unfortunately, this association between the forced oral sex and brushing his teeth gave him a gag reflex. Thus, this boy and eventually man would gag every morning when he brushed his teeth and of course the memories would end up coming to him of the cruelty he experienced. This has been going on every morning for over 30 years What is the price of the humiliation this boy faced? Would he be considered a gold digger if he brought a lawsuit against this man? The shame and absolute hatred for himself has kept him from seeking justice and holding this man accountable. Well, after communicating with me over a few months as he broke from his world, he ended up blocking me on Facebook. I think sharing was overwhelming for him. I have no idea what has become of him. I wish we could have been able to break through and help him when he was a boy, it's heartbreaking when many wanted to help, but his mind and body buried the trauma and pain just so he could try to survive in this world. It's been around 35 years since he was raped and sexually tortured, if he is able and wants to seek some form of justice, is he justified. I hope he finds peace in whatever route he chooses.

Every thread is now a Kincaid thread!

If Amari is truly done, that makes Beanes trade for him brutal. The minions under Beanie in the pro personal department should have watched his tape extensively before any trade was considered. Considering Beane said that he had done his due diligence before trying to trade for Antonio Brown, he clearly hadn't as Brown was a train wreck. Also, have to say where was the due diligence when adding Vontae David and Aquan Bolden to the roster? There are many aspects to being a GM, I think Beanie knocks it out of the park in many areas, but in others, completing due diligence and adjusting the way he evaluates defensive lineman and wide receivers he needs to make adjustments. Otherwise his home run pick of Josh Allen will go to waste.

Dude is an attention *****. He will go anywhere that there are cameras.

I hate reading most of these comments in this thread. Davis is the real deal.He has the heart, skill and drive of a champion. Think...a young Frank Gore. He has fought like hell to get into this position and has suffered hardships most on here couldn't imagine. I'm rooting for Davis to achieve all of his dreams.

Dominick Puni ,G,anyone? if not Brandon Dorius

Would love Demerson

I like safety's Demerson or Bullard but was hoping we would get one in the third and not have to use a second on them

Was just going to post that I think it will be Kneeland

Watch J. Bullard& one of his college coaches is a Bills DB coach and he's better than Kinchens

In Reggie Wayne, he also has a WR he should respect and respond to

Devin Funchess, Kelvin Benjamin, Keon Coleman

So who will we take ? Dejean Mcconkey legette?

If they want Thomas or Worthy I think they still have to move up from 28 I'd be surprised if they had much interest in Mitchell.

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