This is my favorite quote on this subject.
"All the kids I've coached, they're not much different than they were 20 years ago," Shoemaker, 58, told me. "I don't think kids have changed, parenting has changed."
https://www.democratandchronicle.com/story/varsity-voices/2014/03/10/coach-kids-havent-changed-parents-have/6257953/