This is why I shy away from giving advice.I grew up with two younger sisters and a brother...my father demanded that I "took care" of them.....I don't think I'm too old school but I will admit ....I have a short fuse when I know somebody is being abused ,either verbally,mentally and or physically.
Aug...you're a great guy..good fella...a family man.
Me...I'm the same way..but in a different way.
Peace..no worries