finally agreed to go out with one who chased me during late high school/early undergrad, after 3 years of her pursuit, what the heck
didn't turn out well, i think she was seeing someone else, anyway i broke it off after a few months
she was very upset, later called me from her hospital bed to hassle me that she just had a child out of wedlock, well past any of my concern.
oh well, that was 28 years ago.