I don't know how people can entire the firestorm as it goes down for crime or divorce or child custody or other trauma.
Both jobs are up there for my respect for those who care and give their best for their working careers.
It's bad enough in the aftermath trying to get a settlement in my work.
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A few people in my life have nursed a grudge (and there is no question they were very unfairly dealt with) and they have over decades ruined family, their health, their careers and carry a cloud of resentful poison in everything they do.