I'm well over 30. As much as people love to trot out the PC moniker this is about doing the right thing. Maybe I'm showing my age by saying that, but it is the way I was raised. You'll couch this in your PC political speak and talk about the "N" word and believe that if someone uses it everyone should use it. Quit getting lost in the muck. It is the right thing to do or it is not. (&, I know that this is hard for you to understand...not all blacks who use the "N" word live in ghettos...)