honestly if a girl comes up to you at the bar, tell her " what do you want, im drinking my beer" and than move to another seat. ive gotten bjs just from that a few times. remember, there is nothing " nice about sex" and when talking to girls you need to look at it as a possible problem, annoyance, and realize 80% of women are just wet holes.
in my 31 years, ive met probably 2 really good women in my life that werent materialistic, werent totally about status along with being very smart. most women will follow their instinct and engage in hypergamy, and you need to let a woman prove herself to you as far as trying to be with them.
other than that, just use them for sex like they are using u and just have fun. dont look at it like its some epic " somewhere in time relationship". most girls believe it or not are just looking for a fwb and having fun. most hot girls have 5 or 6 guys they hook up with regularly.
most of all, its cliche, b yourself. dont change who you are just because you see a hot piece of ass, most guys do. and dont be jealous, even if shes drunk and grabbing another dudes dick in the bar, act like nothing ever bothers you.
and have fun....
like i said, go to the bar, socialize. if that dont work for a couple months, just buy a hoe.
peace