Human beings are complex creatures. That's why you don't get hooked up with hookers when you have a lot to lose. Human beings can all be envious and spiteful creatures. None of us really know the back story. It's obviously not the classiest thing, but what would you expect? His life isn't necessarily "ruined", he'll just have to work a normal job, or maybe the Cowboys will hire him. Give it few years, he'll probably be back in the NFL. Difficult for me to have any sympathy for him, you don't deserve much when you're that stupid.