When I comes to sports and cheating, you might be right. Everyone does it. IMO it's to the degree that matters. Steroids are illegal so yes, it's cheating, however everyone does it so does it really give your team an advantage? Idts. The problem lies when teams deceive other teams, much like the pats have done. Knowingly cheating across the board is unspoken and accepted, but trickery that breaks the rules gives them an unfair advantage.
The refs must get extra cash for missing/making some of the calls they do. If I see Brady scream and touch another ref with no flag I'll lose it. We very we'll know that if it was anyone else it would be 15