Take 264 towards the Oceanfront, then take the "Princess Anne" Independence exit. Go past Mt Trashmore making sure you're in the left-most non-turning lanes, the road splits and you want S Holland which is straightish/to the left. To the right is S Independence, you don't want that. Continue down S Holland. Gator's is on the left, across the street from the Super K-Mart on the right. A median means you'll have to go past Gator's and do a u-turn at the next light. The driveway sneaks up on ya' from that direction, it's right after Dunkin Donuts' drive - keep an eye out. Whatever you do, don't park in Dunkin Donuts, they'll tow you. I doubt the Gators lot will be full, but if you can't find a parking spot at Gator's, go across the street and park at the Super-K- nobody ever gets their ride towed from there...
I'd suggest you plan on getting there no later than 12:30 to get a (good) seat, but since it sounds like VaBchBledsoeFan won't be there, I'll do my best to save you a spot (his spot) at our table.
Keep an eye out for me in the 36-Milloy and introduce yourself. Look forward to meeting you.