When I graduated from RIT in 1984, I moved from WNY to Sherman TX (about 70 miles north of Dallas, just about on the border of OK). I looked at this move as an opportunity to "see the world". I overcame my fears of the unknown and barbeque, music, rodeo, you name it all became a learning experience. And, I loved it. Ten years later I moved to Raleigh NC (employment related). Again, a whole new world of learning. 10 years later, a move to Columbus OH. Another life lesson.
What I feel that the writer is missing is the experience of adapting to a new environment, while still appreciating where you came from.
I would not have changed a thing in these moves and would welcome the opportunity again.